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Store Your Happy Memories Here:

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All~

What this place is for:
This thread is a tool, a resource, and also I guess a dash of entertainment.

I’ve found that when life is grim that sometimes thoughts of past happiness can create a chink of light in the grey overwhelming press of down. They can help occupy the mind with lighter reflections.

With that in view I invite people to set down a brief passage describing some happy event they look back to with fondness and peace.

They - and others too - can then return to it when they feel the need to glean a little warmth.

It is not a place for gloomy or dire tales, those can go elsewhere.

What to do:
Just set out, as simply as you like, your recollection of some past experience that means something good to you, something you enjoyed, something from safe times.

It can be, like my story below, anything – from an account of visiting grandparents to simply cooking and eating a melted-cheese sandwich in a favorite kitchen – you get to choose.

How to do it:
Write. Write enough so someone else can feel the mood, know what happened, find the goodness. (stop at 2,500 characters please!)

Grammar, syntax, spelling, punctuation are not compulsory, just write as you can – the only important thing is the content - not literary merit. Short or long - it does not matter.


I hope you enjoy, contribute and find a little distraction here when you need it.

Croix

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Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear missep123~

Thank you for that lovely memory of such an impulsive act, made better by being with someone you care for.

I'm not that impulsive a character (what walrus is?) but do remember one occasion when with my future wife we decided out of the blue to drive up a mountain. When we neared the top there was a little stream coming out of the rocks.

My future wife said,"If you drink from that stream you will always come back".

I did and I did.

With your journal perhaps making it appealing to read - without of course leaving significant things out - will make it an easier tool for you to use when searching back though it.

Croix

mmMekitty
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Lying on the lawn outside Qld Griffith Uni Conservatorium, with my back pack for a pillow, listening to cool jazz flowing all through me, like a breeze from a garden of complex fragrance.

Rhythms to feel, melodies to follow, a dozen or more players and instruments in collaboration, having a conversation, sharing ideas, bouncing off each other.

Chatter, laughter, applause.

The sun warm like chicken soup.

it all felt nourishing, even the chips.

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
At 17, I wrote a book report and got top marks in the class, my boyfriend lent me his book and it was a great read. Must have been my enthusiasm that got me such high marks, I loved writing it and loved the cute copy of the book from my high school boyfriend

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear mmMekitty and all~

That reminds me of my first bout of uni - which was a very very long time ago. Amongst other things I studied Drama - though my acting ability was zero - and had a lovely time. it was a built in excuse to see all the local plays in Sydney at the time, everything from "The One Day of the Year" to "Waiting for Godot".

Now I live in a small rural town it ain't quite the same, though the memories are just fine.

Croix

Moonstruck
Community Member

Might be interesting to see how Waiting for Godot goes over in your small rural town? You could hold auditions and be the Director...let me know.

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear Moon~

Nice to hear from you, I hope all is well and you are not too downcast by the deficiencies of politics.Are you managing an interesting social/bowling life despite it all or do you have restrictions like so many?

As for that play, I'm afraid I'd have to re-title it "Waiting for John Deere parts" and do a pretty extensive rewrite to boot.Grand finale with repaired tractor driven triumphantly off stage by (V)Lad and his GF Est(r)a.

Bozzo and Lucky could win the six-pak prize in the intermission raffle.

Of course you would have to come down to make sense of it all and be producer/director. With your experience you could 'bowl over' any objections.

I look forward to the day

Croix

Moonstruck
Community Member

Anything's possible Croix. Love your alternative script...hilarious! The thing is...I've often wondered with various TV comedies etc that are so well acted as they "send up" certain groups in society....do those who are the ones being "sent up" actually realise they are being sent up? Or just laugh along without realising they are the butt of the jokes?

I believe one of O.W's most famous was actually a send up of high society back in the day....a group of us were debating whether they in the audience would have realised it was themselves they were laughing at?

mmMekitty
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

This talk of dramas and plays, reminds me I had taken part in a little Theatre group for kids, and I could not take it seriously. We did one play, miming throughout, and I was to mime giving one of my Xmas prezzies to a neighbour, who, for some reason I can't recall, had none.

I wispered, "it's a bomb", and got the giggles.

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Sam was a brash sort of Cocker Spaniel, filled with bouncy energy. He did not actually live the family home, but with a rellie, let's say.

Also my father built our cement swimming pool, drain and filter, painted 'pool blue' too.

One day, Sam's owner dives in and Sam, dives directly onto his back.

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In the summer, at night, and the flood light was on, it was great just bobbing around the pool. I would have enjoyed it more with the light off.

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Playing with the dogs. Balls, Frisby, tug-a-war with a stick.

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Down the back, almost to the river, there was a large tree, with a wide branch which was almost at a right angle to the trunk, which I could sit astride and just take in the forest-like surroundings. Very peaceful.

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& we had a big Mulberry Tree. I was forbidden to climb as high as my siibs, but, when I could get away with it, I did. I never fell.

We must have eaten half of what we picked before coming back to the house. Our hands and faces would be bright as beetroot pink with Mulberry juice. The Mulberries we brought back would go into 4L ice cream containers and frozen.

Recently I heard someone has turned frozen Mulberries into a commercial business. I wish I knew where to get some. I would really rather have a Mulberry Tree, but, that is not going to happen here, so if I could get some...I wonder why Mulberries are not as readily available as other berries?

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I shall return!

🍇(near enough) in mouth.

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear mmMekitty~

I guess the prosaic answer to your question is mulberrys take around 10 years to yield fruit, others like blueberries might only take two. It's a long term investment.

I too remember a mulberry tree and being in trouble as the stain - as you would know - is not good for school uniforms. At the time this was not a pleasant experience! Looking back now I know it was worth it:)

A kid's way of "stopping to smell the roses" I guess

Croix

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear Moon~

I'm glad you like my rural verion of hteater of hte absurd.