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Store Your Happy Memories Here:

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All~

What this place is for:
This thread is a tool, a resource, and also I guess a dash of entertainment.

I’ve found that when life is grim that sometimes thoughts of past happiness can create a chink of light in the grey overwhelming press of down. They can help occupy the mind with lighter reflections.

With that in view I invite people to set down a brief passage describing some happy event they look back to with fondness and peace.

They - and others too - can then return to it when they feel the need to glean a little warmth.

It is not a place for gloomy or dire tales, those can go elsewhere.

What to do:
Just set out, as simply as you like, your recollection of some past experience that means something good to you, something you enjoyed, something from safe times.

It can be, like my story below, anything – from an account of visiting grandparents to simply cooking and eating a melted-cheese sandwich in a favorite kitchen – you get to choose.

How to do it:
Write. Write enough so someone else can feel the mood, know what happened, find the goodness. (stop at 2,500 characters please!)

Grammar, syntax, spelling, punctuation are not compulsory, just write as you can – the only important thing is the content - not literary merit. Short or long - it does not matter.


I hope you enjoy, contribute and find a little distraction here when you need it.

Croix

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mmMekitty
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

My friend had begun to watch Doctor Who, & she loved it,. I could only see it when I went to her place, next door, which was, of-course, not every day, so I couldn't follow a four episode story all the way through, until much later. I didn't really like the Daleks much. All that noise!

mmMekitty

Dear friends

I never post on here as I tend to write down happy memorable moments in my journal as they happen...and rarely look back in my mind to think of them...recent years have been filled with loss, grief, turmoil, fear, PTSD, agoraphobia, anxiety, panic attacks, and more "bad stuff" my body feels weighed down and find no happy memories to store...here, or anywhere......

UNTIL...it was reading a post about someone's child I think...and suddenly clear as a bell came the vison of myself and my first new born baby son ...he's a fully grown adult now of course....he was a copy book baby, did everything on time and perfectly, hardly ever cried..during a middle of the night feed, afterwards I woud rock him in the rocking chair which was positioned in front of a mirror and sing a lullaby...a song that featured in Bundle Of Joy, a Debbie Reynolds/Eddie Fisher film where she sang "How I love my pretty baby, sweet and precious pretty baby" I'd sing that, and gaze at the Madonna like mother and child in the mirror and my cup runneth over.

Will that do for a happy memory, cos I can't think of many more....everything turns to crap!

Hi Moonstruck,

I think hat is a wonderful memory, so beautiful, it brings tears to my eyes.

Thank you for sharing 😻

mmMekitty

Really, Moonstruck, you move me to feelings I'm not usually in touch with. I can feel the love you feel for your new born, the wonder of him & for you, it seems, the gratitude you feel to have him, & yes, the blessing of having him.😺

This moment of reading your post is a Happy Memory for me to record here. 😺

mmMekitty

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear Moon~

You may not post much bet when you do -wow!

That birth and the love and contentment is something to lift anyone's soul, and for you to stumble across that memory considering all that has happened to you recently is wonderful

Thank you

Croix

Doolhof
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

I've had many happy moments holding and cuddling other people's babies and children.

I don't have so many children ion my life now.

Volunteering in a home for the elderly, I now have happy moments spent with older people. To make them smile and join them for a laugh is precious. Just listening to their sadness, regrets and loss can be rewarding also, providing them with a listening ear is special . It makes me happy to know I may have made a difference in their day. I enjoy listening to their happy memories too.

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All~

On the weekend, quite early in the day I went for a walk along the riverbank. My back was good and I managed to make it from the car-park to the bridge, turned around and went back.

Sounds very bald, maybe you are thinking I'm pleased at having accomplished that, however that isn't what pleased me.

I started with stale bread to feed the ducks, however I guess the local baker must have off-loaded yesterday's bread. They looked at my offerings and (metaphorically) turned up their noses. I saw lots of slices with just the soft centers pecked out.

A far cry from every other time when they would rush across the water wings flapping, run up the bank from all directions and clamor for a feed, necks craning, jostling each other away.

Wood ducks, Muscovy ducks, mallards, geese, native hens and one rooster, all trying to to cheat each other.

That's just the start, then walking along the path, with manicured grass either side, past a small swamp owned by a crane that sat on a stump mid-water, then past the cranky native hen who tried to shoo us off his territory wiht mock charges and raucous shrieks.

The river now in full view past the scrub. Dotted with expanding rings, maybe insects, maybe fish, and this once a platypus motoring along mid-stream, just nostrils and eyebrows above the water like a wind-up toy., leaving a V shaped wake.

It was still but quite cold, a bracing reminder of what the world has to offer, something I too often forget.

Croix

mmMekitty
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Sure is amazing stuff, something to fill you with wonder & a great sense of order. Thanks Croix 🕊

mmMekitty.

Last Sat my son came arouns to pick rasberries with his kids. We have an overabundance and I didn't have time to do it. He also gave my hsb a blessing (special prayer) as hsb was going into hospital for lots of tests an procedures. He had to get a covid test on Sun and the isolate until going to hospital on Tues. My grandson came in and asked if there was any housework I needed doing. He happily went outside to sweep up the leaves which had blown off the vine and kept blowing inside. The leaves were gathered and put in the compost. It wasn't done perfectly but it was lovely knowing he wanted to help and it was far better than before he started. Then Mr 2yr old came into the kitchen with a stick using it like his granddads blind cane. It was so cute to see his smile clearly showing how proud he was to be able to copy grandad. I don't think he understand that my hsb is blind and what that means. Eventually he will understand but in the meantime he just like to copy him because grandad is special to him.

Hello Elizabeth CP,

So much goodness in your post! 😺 One bit standas out - your hubby getting tests & treatment. I'm so glad.

But of-course, as a white cane user myself, I had a smile thinking of the two year old using a stick, copying granddad. 😸Later, maybe Granddad will teach him how it helps him to navigate the world, too.He certainly won't be afraid of it like some (mostly adults) seem to be, when they pull their kids away from me, with an exclaimation to "keep away" or "don't touch". when the children are curious about the long white thing with the big red ball on the end. 😸 I prefer a big red ball, which is less likely to get stuck between gaps, like grills & grating.

🎼🌟🕊

mmMekitty