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Store Your Happy Memories Here:

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All~

What this place is for:
This thread is a tool, a resource, and also I guess a dash of entertainment.

I’ve found that when life is grim that sometimes thoughts of past happiness can create a chink of light in the grey overwhelming press of down. They can help occupy the mind with lighter reflections.

With that in view I invite people to set down a brief passage describing some happy event they look back to with fondness and peace.

They - and others too - can then return to it when they feel the need to glean a little warmth.

It is not a place for gloomy or dire tales, those can go elsewhere.

What to do:
Just set out, as simply as you like, your recollection of some past experience that means something good to you, something you enjoyed, something from safe times.

It can be, like my story below, anything – from an account of visiting grandparents to simply cooking and eating a melted-cheese sandwich in a favorite kitchen – you get to choose.

How to do it:
Write. Write enough so someone else can feel the mood, know what happened, find the goodness. (stop at 2,500 characters please!)

Grammar, syntax, spelling, punctuation are not compulsory, just write as you can – the only important thing is the content - not literary merit. Short or long - it does not matter.


I hope you enjoy, contribute and find a little distraction here when you need it.

Croix

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Fairywings
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Ok I will find it and let you on in on the real me xx yes I am very strong and able it's taken me a very long time but I got there xx thanks for your support tonight xx

Today i watched 'The Little Prince" Netflix movie and fell in love with the credits song "Turnaround". I danced around to it for a while playing it on repeat.Then i realised there was a french version that's even more magical "Suis Moi".

Its such an uplifting and heartwarming song. I haven't danced around like that in months. It felt good.

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion
Holding the nails.

“I’ll have to use the old shoe, no forge you see boyo”

Uncle Tom gave me the square nails and I put them in my mouth, spacing them out neatly, heads inwards – deliberately imitating my uncle and feeling very mature and trustworthy.

Looking back now I have a strong suspicion he hoped I was going do just that and be effectively muted. My favourite word had been “Why … ?” and I had applied it quite often.

Uncle Tom was a fisherman, but also a blacksmith, and a farrier, and lots of things. I thought he was pretty good.

That morning I’d found a shoe in the gutter outside the house. It belonged to Llywelyn bach, the milk man's cart-horse. Now we were down in the alley behind the Co-op, with Evans-the-milk and of course Llywelyn, who was standing there, sort of dozing. No harness, no rope, just a halter.

Uncle Tom put on his old grey leather apron, the one with a split in the front, and picked up his pincers. He tapped Llywelyn on the back of his fetlock, and the great hoof came up and was straddled. Old nails were pulled and then the rasp applied. The shoe was held in position and a hand came out towards me, I put a nail in it.

Uncle Tom hammered it in with the back of the pincers and I gave him another. When all eight were in place he nipped off the sharp points and rasped the tips flush with the hoof. Standing up he released to hoof which Llywelyn gently lowered to the ground.

I gave Llywelyn his cabbage leaf and used the broom I was given to sweep up.

Quercus
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Champion Alumni

Hmm my happy memories are a bit unfocused today but I'll give it a shot anyway...

Rain pouring down. Water in pools on the ground. Darkness around the three of us. The drum of raindrops on a tin roof.

Kids rugged up against the cold. Hot chips in paper. Salt and grease and heat. Baby snug in my arms. Wet hair. Dirt on my nose. Smelling of smoke and ash.

A massive burn off. Fire. Red and orange sparks against the night sky. Silence apart from the rain and the hiss and cracks from the bonfire. Watching embers fight their way through the rain.

Silouette of a man tending the fire in the rain. Towel at the ready and fresh clothes wating. A kiss. Warmth of affection. Eat something you're freezing. Looks like we're staying for a few days. Didn't think it would take with this rain.

Children coccooned in a makeshift cot. Peaceful and asleep. Sitting side by side in the dark fixated on the snap and crackle and the burts of sparks in the black of night. Content. Peaceful. Fingers entwined. His cold fingers in mine.

I could stay like this forever.

Gruffudd
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Nain had some friends, Mr and Mrs York who lived in the country.

We all crammed into the Rover with the dog, and headed through the city and the west onto the Calder highway and into the dark enclosed Black Forest. At lunchtime we pulled into a picnic ground at Hanging Rock. Mother, with a wry smile, reminded us not to go wandering off on our own. The tartan blankets were spread, the green and gold china plates and cups arranged, the welshcakes distributed, and a pot of tea made. Then after that a scramble through the rock, checking every crevice and gorge for the lost Miranda, but alas we always descended to the car park without sighting her. Although I heard something once.

Back along the highway we soon made it to the familiar green picket fence, the sign on the gate reading, Croeso i Efrog. We had arrived and piled out of the car, none happier with the freedom than the dog. Mrs York was always overwhelmed with joy as she greeted us. She offered a cup of tea, which was a joke, causing laughter that went on for some time. Because it was her, that had responded to Nain on her first night in the migrant camp. Nain said to Taid that she could do with a baned o te. Moments after speaking those fateful words a fist came through the wall, then through the hole made by it a cup and saucer was passed through, followed by a pot of prince of wales.

From there the stories of Caerffili, Abertawe, and Pontypridd flowed, as my brother and I played fetch with the dog and hunted for dragons in the garden. As the sun was setting we found ourselves back in the Rover and on the road to the city.

Starwolf
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Whizzing around circuits as monkey on my cousin's racing sidecar, playing with shifting balance, seeking oneness with pilot and machine, face often bare centimeters off the rushing track.

Hearing the crowd's gasp of shock when a cascade of hair tumbled down to my backside as the full face helmet was taken off and a pair of boobs revealed by unzipped leathers. A moment of youthful pride and defiance...in those days, side racing was exclusively a man's world. Unladylike to say the least...

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear Star~

Thank you for that, a couple of things to savor. Seems pretty real. I had no idea they were called monkeys.

Croix

Starwolf
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Not a flattering name I admit...but it sums up the blend of speed, agility and recklessness (many call it stupidity) required. And you're right...nothing like risking it to bring home the reality and preciousness of Life 🙂

Hmm what memory comes to mind today....

Treasured memories evoked by the most simple of things.

Working in the garden. Dirt under my nails. Glisten of the morning dew. A flash of colour. Red. Red. Red. One sole robin sitting on the fence wire. I've never seen one here before!

Not a word. Silence. No movement. Watching. Stay with me a little longer.

Standing side by side with a tiny woman with wispy white hair. Red and white lace curtain. Tea cups painted with a delicate hand.

Which birds today? Blue wren for Grandad. Red robin for Grandma. Willy wagtail for me.

A ceremonious act. Tea. Milk. Sugar. Quiet clink of the teaspoon. Stir clockwise once. Anticlockwise twice and then through the middle of the cup. Knowing Grandad will ask if I remembered to stir though the middle.

A huge smile from me and a gentle, loving one from the woman I love most in this world. Can't believe I'm taller than her now.

Flutter of wings. The spell is broken. I am awake. Alive. My heart in my throat. Smiling. Joyous.

Hand on my shoulder. You alright hon?

This is our place. Home. Let's plant some more trees. Set our roots into this earth. Content.

She has given her blessing.

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion
My wife came home today tired and frazzled. She plonked down in chair on her side of the kitchen table. As soon as she sat down Sumo cat jumped on the table, spread his enormous set of whiskers wide, tilted his head on one side and very gently touched my wife's face with his nose.

Fatigue and frazzle faded away.