dear Tk, welcome to the site and thanks for posting your comment in which you may feel a bit left out of it, but in retrospect your not, so firstly please feel at home here.
What sexual orientation you want is totally up to you, no one can change you, nor can you be forced to change, this feeling is entirely up to you, no matter what other people say, it's your life.
I do understand the apprehension in regards to your family and possibly friends, and being at your age of 16 would make you nervous, but then there are parents who would accept on how you feel, and perhaps you are scared for no reason, that is something which you will have to tell us.
Being young there could be a chance that you decide on being gay, hetersexual or continue on being bi-sexual, no one knows and only time will tell, and only you will make this decision.
If either of my two sons came home and told me they were gay or bisexual, so what, it wouldn't worry me one bit, life still goes on, they are my sons and I still love them, and whether my wife (ex) was upset, so what, it's your life and not hers, I am only surmising this as my sons have grown up and I am divorced.
Can I ask you a question, and only answer if you want to, how are your parents, are they strict or open to some sort of change, and another one is who knows at the moment, siblings or any friends.
You will make up your mind as time progress's, but I would like to hear back from you when possible. Geoff.
