l think won't and can't and don't and l could add a few more to that too let me tell ya , not to mention one of the mains , they're basically just too self absorbed to giva fk really. People seem to be good as long as your good , but very few really giva damn and stick around when your not. And even for them you know , people like us or many through bb , could , if you got too involved and caring , absolutely suck what you do have to spare away and just drain you. But we can only go through that for a choice few in our life , or even a choice one. Just how much can you give , you know , to somebody that isn't your spouse or child or parent or best of friend , how much can you have left. ? After life work struggles bills your own family or loved ones , how much can you spare and yet still look after yourself with just what's left , if any ? And then there's the emotional users that happily drain the life out of you if your silly enough to listen. l've got one of those, a brother.
Soooo, in many ways l do understand it.Going through divorce no one wanted to know suddenly l didn't hear even from most family 3 or 4 yrs and my families huge yet only 2 gave a damn or had time, both single . l mean later l understood, everyone else had so much already ,just how much can you actually have left , ya know.
So l do sort of get it , especially in this country with our outrageous mortgages and cost of living , not much left in the tank even time wise with that on top of it.
But l'm so sorry sleepy you haven't been able to find much help . Bc counselors and professionals have no excuse it's their job to read you and pick it and to know that their standard list of off the sheet questions won't always rule you out of danger and need.
l used mensline myself back when , whom l mostly found extremely good out of all l tried but as usual some people just shouldn't be in the job so it depended who you got.Seems to be very common just finding that right thing for you.
Hope your holding up. rx
