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An inconsiderate husband and a happy life? Can it exist?
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Hi there,
Welcome to these forums.
There are lots of things in what you wrote. What fantastic support your friend and her husband give you. It definitely does serve as a contrast to being spoken over or ignored. You might follow the old pattern of forgiving and moving on if it worked, but it sounds to me like it doesn't work for you and you are considering what might.
This can be a good place to discuss and figure out a range of options. My guess is that living with a man who talks over, doesn't seem to care for you as much as being at work etc contributed to the panic attack. I also think if it doesn't work there is no harm in trying something else. What would you like to do differently or to be different this time? How would he react? Remember you are not alone with friends like yours and you have room here to talk through as well.
Rob.
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Hello
How wonderful to have friends who are so caring and thoughtful and go out of their way to help you at your time of need... truly awesome mates you have! 🙂 Sorry to hear that you had to go through that experience and feel no support or gratitude from your husband.
Have you tried couple's counseling or anything of that sort? Does he recognize that there is a problem?
Tracey 🙂
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When love, help and care isn't happening within a marriage then what's the point of living with someone you may not love, because this only makes your life miserable. Geoff.
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Hi At a loss,
It has been a few days since you sent in your post. I am just wondering how you are now? While in hospital were you given any information on anxiety and how you may be able to help yourself in the future if you have another anxiety attack?
Have you been to see your Dr at all since returning from hospital? It sounds like you are in a rather remote area, so gaining access to mental health support my be difficult for you.
There is plenty of information on this site for you to look at.
Hopefully you are okay.
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