life transitions!

[Flower Earth angel]

i cant cope with the changes in my life

ptsd/disabitlies/ emotional dysregulation/ sensory ear disorder

depression

i cant let go of my cat to be buried

i live alone and not ready to invite a random ndis worker in my home to help me to decide waht to do

any suggestions

goodnight

[Flower Earth angel]

been crying randomly out of nowhere

the psychologist thinks its easy to move on!

[Flower Earth angel]

i saw a grief support group via online zoom in february

im on ndis because of narcissitic and sexual trauma

thankyou so much for always being here when i need

[Summer Rose]

Hi Flower Earth Angel

Pets are really good for our mental and physical health, not to mention the quality of our lives. When you think you are ready to commit again, I would encourage you to get another cat.

Kitten might be fun but I’m guessing they might be a lot of work, don’t know. What do you like about cats? Ever had a kitten?

I’m sorry you’re having such a tough time with your neighbours. That situation must be hard. Not sure how to help because I don’t know enough, except to say that the landlord, local council and the police may be able to help, depending on the situation.

I’m sorry about your ptsd, too. I really wish life didn’t have to be so hard for you.

Kind thoughts to you

[Flower Earth angel]

hi

i had a lightbulb moment

it said i am meant to get a dog not a cat

but i dont want a dog

[Summer Rose]

Hi Flower Earth Angel

So very nice to hear from you again. I’ve been wondering how you are getting on and how the funeral for your cat went,

Wow! That was certainly a light bulb moment! It must be very confusing for you.

Perhaps it would be a good idea to just pause and sit with your ideas for a while. Things might become clearer to you in time.

Kind thoughts to you

[Flower Earth angel]

grief is such a complicated process

no funeral

the support worker is MIA and she has my cat

in her shed

not a good sign

initially it was cremation and that didnt work out she took him there and there was no parking

i emaile dher again and said u can cremate if u changed ur mind about burial

i bought a trough from bunnings and his gonna be buried there

hopefully he fits lol

then we will bring it here i will put flowers and other things on it

im so PROUD i have been grieving privately for 2months from neighbours

[Summer Rose]

Hi Flower Earth Angel

Your post reminded me of how challenging it must be for you and others to be reliant on others for care. I’m really sorry the funeral is yet to be held but your future plan sounds nice.

I’m glad your feeling proud of yourself. I’m wondering though, why is it important to be grieving privately from your neighbours? Is it because you don’t get along?

I really hope they’re not giving you too much trouble.

Kind thoughts to you

[Flower Earth angel]

i think grieving is a private thing

Yeh they caused hassles with my cat one of the neighbours

I will let you know when his buried and i bring him home

GRief makes us stronger and helps us grow

however long it takes i will grieve for my cat

He was the man of this house 🙂

[Summer Rose]

Hi Flower Earth Angel

Ernest Hemingway once wrote: “The world breaks everyone and afterward many are stronger at the broken places.”

You will get through this. You are so right to see the opportunity for growth.

Kind thoughts to you

[Flower Earth angel]

Hi thanku

ok so After looking at some old paperwork for my cat

says his heart murmur was 3/6 grade

i think i need to speak to someone like a vet or surgeon to see

if they would of operated on the cancer knowing this