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Anxiety issue

BballJ
Community Member

Hi all,

I took abit of convincing myself to join the forums and write in here but just wanted some advice.

in the past two weeks, I have had anxiety spiralling out of control, I am unable to concentrate at work or at home, I continually think of the worst case scenario in anything, I wake up in the middle of the night having panic attacks (heart racing, in shaking, heavy breathing) I haven't slept more than 4 hours each night and during the day I am in a constant stressed state that by 2 pm I am tired as can be, I hate being alone, if I'm driving I feel the need to call someone just so I can get my mind off my anxiety and contanst worry feelings. I have lost my appetite, eating maybe one meal a day simply because I cannot eat. I have tried natural over the counter medicine to try and alleviate the anxiety and calm me down but they don't work.... Does this sound like GAD and should I see a doctor about medication?

thank you in advance for your replies.

Jay

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BballJ
Community Member

Hi Ava,

As always i appreciate your kind words, you'll be happy to know i bought my wife an early christmas present yesterday...got her a little puppy.. and for me too 🙂 I love dogs. I thought it may help bring us closer together. I picked her up today and surprised her with it when she got in the car.. she had no idea it was coming.

Hope things are well with you and P. 🙂

Hugs, Jay

Wednesday
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Oh Jay, what charming gift, a puppy, awww. I bet you won a lot of brownie points yesterday. What sort of puppy is it?

Hugs, and tickles for the puppy, xx

BballJ
Community Member

Hi Ava,

Yes, she loves here, she named her coco.

I uploaded a picture below, Can you see her?

[LINK href=''https://postimg.org/image/ifnjkx157/' target='_blank'>postimage

Hugs, Jay

BballJ
Community Member

If not,

Try this direct link the picture I uploaded 🙂

https://postimg.org/image/ifnjkx157/

Wednesday
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Jay,

I couldn't see the puppy, but I can imagine a very sweet little think. I've always thought that owning a dog is good practice for having children, consistency etc. Have lots of fun.

Hugs, xx

BballJ
Community Member

Hi Ava,

Well the puppy definitely is training me for kids, I'm up a couple of times a night taking her to the toilet outside, trying to train her. I am so very tired so i imagine this is what it feels like having a new born hehe.

Much on for the weekend for you and P?

Hugs, Jay

Wednesday
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Haha,

Yes puppies help prepare you for children and children put your feet on the ground! But both give so much back its well worth the trip.

P away, me napping.

xx

BballJ
Community Member

Hi Ava,

Hope you're doing well and enjoy your weekend.

Hugs, Jay

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Jay,

I hope you don't' mind me dropping in and catching up on your thread. You've had such a struggle and yet you spend so much time here helping others. I notice you haven't posted since December and take that as a sign that you are improving.

Anyway, I wanted to post on your thread to let you know that if you need any support i am here along with the others, as you have been such a great support and friend to me.

I hope you are doing ok.

cmf x

BballJ
Community Member

Hi CMF,

Thank you for finding my thread - I haven't posted for a while I can see that too - I guess I got caught up with writing to others which I really do enjoy. I thank you for the support and always know I can reach out for support if needed from yourself and the many other great people on these forums.

My best,

Jay