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Hi Pete in Heaven

Rosie49
Community Member
We all missed you today at your nephew's Naming Day.  But you live on in Deb, Dean, Shan,  Kiesh and Zay.  I hate when people think I should  be "over it" .   I will never be "over" losing you.  I just have to try to learn to live without you in my life, after 20 wonderful years. .  16 months on and I'm slowly getting there, but it still sucks.  I love you and miss you like crazy Pete.  You were too young to die.  You are "Always on my Mind".  Love you mate,  Ciao for now.        No need to respond.   Just needed to express how much my soul mate is loved and missed.    Love you Pete.  xxx
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Doolhof
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hi Rosie49,

Thanks for sharing your beautiful message.

Memories of loved ones can be both beautiful and so devastating at the same time.

Cherish the memories always and your soul mate will always live on in your heart.

Kind regards, Mrs. Dools

geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

dear Rosie, when someone posts a comment like yours, it naturally means that we feel as though we would like to respond to the loss which you have had to endue.

Our heartfelt condolences extend out to you in every way that's possible, and we do appreciate and thank you for sharing this very sad moment with us all.

Your healing will take as long as you want it to, and no one can ever tell you to move on, because this will happen in your own time.

Our very best wishes. Geoff. x

 

demonblaster
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Very hard isn't it Rosie 🙂

I too have lost a partner, we love eachother very much so I have an idea of what pain you're going through. 
He also is a Pete. (Petie)
For me it's still early months and I feel that way too that people must be thinking I should be getting over it but fortunately there's a lot saying it's still early days which it is. 
We were 28 yrs together. 

As above said it'll take as long as you need. I've heard quite often grieving is an individual process without time limits.

Great to be able to talk about it isn't it. 

Time does help and ease the pain. We never forget people we love 🙂

Take care