To the point where Beers don't help

[Dvo2456]

2 boys to 1 girl 

1 girl to another

loves the new baby mumma to the point got her tattooed on me destroyed every friendship I had and almost pushed my family away just to make sure she is happy 

my hobbies that I loved have become none existent I work 60hrs a week and I'm still being treated like the scum of the earth

i have none to talk to and I've become desperate enough to join a site like this because I've got nothing left 

[white knight]

hi dvo

your post is too confusing for me to reply. I'd be happy to though. Can you clarify it better?

Tony WK

[Jacko777]

Welcome Dvo2456,

There are ways to feel better for you mate I am sure. We can all relate I think to how you feel, at times I have felt like there is nothing left but of course it was just my thinking that was out of whack. I would love to hear about your hobbies and I would love to hear how you can take some power back, how can you start to spend some time on the things that you are passionate about? 60 hours a week is a fair bit, it's a good effort but is this something you need to reduce if you are able?

A relationships counsellor could really help you right now, you could both use some professional support and make some fresh plans that takes all of you into consideration. What do you think? Hang in there mate, you can make this better and you have already taken the first step...onya.

Jack

[geoff]

dear Dvo, great username, I'm only saying thing because it's could be short for David, and if so, then this name means so much to me about happiness and then my Dvo who had a great of sickness only relied on me and not his family, but on this site, 'me' means all of us because all of us have been through hell and back too many times to remember, but we maybe able to sort out all these problems, so please come back to us. Geoff.

[nevastuck]

Dvo,

I'm hearin' ya. Alcohol dependence, 60 odd hrs a week etc. The most important thing about finally talking about the status quo (even if you don't fully agree there's a problem) is the revelation that there is someone who is either going through, or been through, the same crap and feeling not quite as alone as you thought you were. Could you post a response to one of the replies? I'm sure everyone on this thread is concerned and wanting to know how you're doing.