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Justin95
Community Member
Why do people fake their coughs when I’m around. I’m getting anxiety when I hear people do it. It really hurts. What is wrong with me. At the moment I’m listening to people fake cough on YouTube so I can get used to it but it damages me. I feel like I’m rejected wherever I go.
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MissRex
Community Member

I am exactly the same your not the only person in the world that people cough sniff or rub their noses 

It's not what u are thinking ppl are trying to help you 

You need to overcome it to figure it out and listen 

itsmrbee
Community Member

I have experience this also. First of all I want to say you’re not crazy. Second of all I’m surprised why so many people know so little about this bullying tactic. The coughs are fake but not so obviously fake, they are put on coughs. Definitely to mess with you psychologically somehow I don’t get why what’s the need of this kind of passive aggression. It makes you feel unwanted. 


e.g. 

I walk up to a group of friends & some other people. The “others” we both know of each other, but we aren’t exactly friends. Everything was fine. Until I walked over there. When I walked over there, all of a sudden they were having a coughing fit. They felt the need to cough, but the whole time I was sitting in the corner of the room observing they did not cough. Until I was right there in their proximity.

 

I think they do this to make you feel out of place, unwanted, unwelcome and uncomfortable. 

I never make accounts much, are usually just read what people post, but I made this account, so you know you arent alone. This needs to have more awareness spread to it, with less stigma of people being crazy.

itsmrbee
Community Member

How are they helping anything?