I’m so horribly unattractive

[PsychedelicFur]

I’m so horribly unattractive.

my toxic ex told me I was a ‘6/10’ and ‘plus size’ and embarrassing looking. That is why he showed me photos of other women in bikinis.

I’m that unattractive that he lost interest in me and started treating me like garbage. I know deep and meaningful relationships are not based off looks but he made me believe that I wasn’t very good looking. Even though I have had people, strangers come up to me, hundreds of time and compliment my eccentric clothing or my long wavy ginger hair.

he said to me once ‘you’re looks don’t matter anyway because you are only a 6/10.’

I’m starting to believe what he said about me. ☹️😢😭 please give some suggestions or advice.

many thanks,

lots of love,

PF.

[PsychedelicFur]

Thank you lovely one!! Hope you are well. 💕☮️🌈🌻

[Guest_4643]

Thanks, I hope you are too. I posted something on my thread as an update with me if you wish to read it but no pressure

[PsychedelicFur]

Thank you for your nice words. You are beautiful even though I don’t know you and your feelings and emotions are definitely valid.

please take care of yourself.

[PsychedelicFur]

So so lonely but I didn’t text my ex today. Temptation was strong but I didn’t do it! Proud of myself.

Was tempted to say ‘hey, how are you? Hope you are well’

saw a recent photo of him and he looked very unhappy and quite bitter, not at all smiley.

[Guest_4643]

Thank you, the same to you. I don't consider myself beautiful at all inside and out however.

[PsychedelicFur]

I’m sure there are some beautiful qualities about yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And true beauty is a beautiful heart. Because good looks will fade. A beautiful heart will stay forever.

It’s beautiful to be kind.

[Guest_4643]

Not really, but thank you anyway.

[PsychedelicFur]

I’m certainly sure there is something beautiful about you, in fact many things.

how is everyone going this morning or today?

PF

[missep123]

Hi PsychedelicFur,

Moving on from someone is definitely like a grieving period where we miss them and think about the memories but ultimately it will help us grow in our own journey.

How have you been lately?

[PsychedelicFur]

Moving on is difficult, yes.
I’m doing a lot better thank you, how are you? I have creating art by drawing and painting. A wise woman once said ‘you don’t heal with your heart. You heal with your hands.’

I hope you are well. What have you been up to? Good to hear from you.