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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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Lam83 Dizziness
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I suffer from GAD, so I have been told. ive had anxiety for 14 years take an antidepressant which helps with the panic attacks but I still am suffering with the symptoms aid anxiety. i feel dizzy/ unsteady on my feet constantly, I feel anxious like I... View more

I suffer from GAD, so I have been told. ive had anxiety for 14 years take an antidepressant which helps with the panic attacks but I still am suffering with the symptoms aid anxiety. i feel dizzy/ unsteady on my feet constantly, I feel anxious like I can't relax, I feel as though bdy is full of tension and sooo much more. the biggest thing that is ruining my life at the moment is the unsteadiness, it affects my life so much that I'm scared to go out anywhere due to suffering with it, its just easier to stay home and suffer. Mi have a 3yo son and planning my next baby but I worry that I can't do anything with them cause of the dizziness. does anyone else suffer dizziness/ unsSteadiness? i just want my life back, I want enjoy my kids without all the worry.

chloe33 The most honest words I've ever shared.
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Most people in my life would not believe what I do to myself. Do not see the scars that appear after I have been covered up for months and months. I have a full time job, people lean on me for support and I work hard. I smile and laugh, telling lies ... View more

Most people in my life would not believe what I do to myself. Do not see the scars that appear after I have been covered up for months and months. I have a full time job, people lean on me for support and I work hard. I smile and laugh, telling lies about how great life is. I also feel like I am dying inside. I have self harmed for going on 10 years now and suffered from panic attacks for 8. At times I feel strong, mostly I feel broken. Is this all life has to offer?In the last few weeks I have tried some online chats and get cut off because I'm taking too long. I have great difficulty expressing myself to anyone as I am so scared of what goes on inside my head and constantly thinking about how pathetic I sound. I spoke face to face to a psychologist twice, but never managed to discuss the self harm. They focussed on the panic attacks and I never had the guts to take the conversation elsewhere. I never managed to make a follow up appointment as I am terrible with the telephone. I do not discuss this with my family and I never will. I can not physically get the words out. I feel too ashamed. So, this is my first online post.I do not know what to do or what to say. I have never been the happiest of people, but recent changes in my life have made it almost unbearable. All I do is work, sleep and cry. I experience happiness but I don't remember the last time I felt relaxed and content. I envy people who are suicidal because I would love to be away from this all. I think that confuses me even more. I have had serious thoughts before but I feel like this is the worst I have ever felt but I know I will not do it. It's both a blessing and a curse to have things that tie me here. Sounds utterly crazy, I know.Even now as I write this I wonder at the use. I have read a lot of information about anxiety, self harm and depression and continue to feel at a loss about what to do. I am now trying to reach out it a way that is less confronting than face to face. These are probably my darkest days so far yet I am desperate for help. Ppl will mention to go to a gp, but I cannot find one I trust. A friend? I'm not ready to burn those bridges. Family? I will never tell them. I am a respected professional.I have been living like this for years and surviving. I am now so tired of surviving. beyondblue's clinically-trained moderators often work offline (invisible to you) on issues relating to suicide or self-harm. At the same time, general supportive comments from the community are encouraged. If you have concerns around suicide or self-harm, please phone our support service on 1300 22 4636. Normal 0 false false false EN-AU X-NONE X-NONE /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-priority:99; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi; mso-fareast-language:EN-US;}

allalone getting here
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I think I work the site out at last. Wish it was so easy to work my anxiety out. I can't be anywhere with to many people are. Took me over two years just to go to the doctor now have to make myself go again thinking about it makes me sick. Just think... View more

I think I work the site out at last. Wish it was so easy to work my anxiety out. I can't be anywhere with to many people are. Took me over two years just to go to the doctor now have to make myself go again thinking about it makes me sick. Just thinking making an appointment is enough. It's hard when I have no one yo talk to. Spend most of my time at home

mjncoursecar Anxiety Disorder and Relationship
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Hi, I was diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder a couple of years ago, but it took me a while to get me head around and accept it. Once that happened (about a year later) I explained what was going on to my girlfriend, who I have been with for ... View more

Hi, I was diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder a couple of years ago, but it took me a while to get me head around and accept it. Once that happened (about a year later) I explained what was going on to my girlfriend, who I have been with for 9 years. Ever since then, the relationship has started to degrade, and I feel like she is blaming me, without directly addressing the anxiety disorder (she refuses to discuss it), which makes me feel worse. Does anyone have any advice or supportive words? I'm really struggling to understand what to do from here.

misspossum Losing the battle against myself.
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Never been diagnosed with a mental illness, in all honesty too afraid to even speak to anyone about whats going on inside. Ive always felt, odd. You wouldnt pick me to be different in a crowd, but inside my head is an absolute mess. Every day im torn... View more

Never been diagnosed with a mental illness, in all honesty too afraid to even speak to anyone about whats going on inside. Ive always felt, odd. You wouldnt pick me to be different in a crowd, but inside my head is an absolute mess. Every day im torn between two completely opposite sides of myself. Im in a constant panic attack of not knowing who im going to wake up and be in the morning. Its hard to explain but recently i feel like im being torn apart from the inside from all the confusion, indecisiveness and constant feeling of dread. To make matters harder ive been with my partner over two years and this is someone im excited to spend the foreseeable future with. But for months now ive been struggling to show and feel love for another person when im so lost with myself. The last thing I want is this relationship to end i honestly feel if it did i couldnt go on. But is it fair for myself or my partner to go through the pain of disappointment when the version of me that walks through the door isnt the girl he feel in love with. The girl i know i am? Im exhausted and weak and really struggling with each day. Im a smart girl and ive practiced anxiety exercises, set goals, done yoga... but i feel as if im inly getting worse with each day. I need help and i don't even know where to begin..

Layne Feeling out of control...
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Hi, I'm 44 yrs old and have only in the past 3 yrs been suffering... Sometimes I'm sure that when I have an attack that it is actually the end of the world for me.. In my head I try to rationalise my fears and breathe... But I can't seem to calm down... View more

Hi, I'm 44 yrs old and have only in the past 3 yrs been suffering... Sometimes I'm sure that when I have an attack that it is actually the end of the world for me.. In my head I try to rationalise my fears and breathe... But I can't seem to calm down... I recall once my whole body was paralysed and I couldn't talk, my hands were all curled up and I had no movement in my body... I'll never forget the look on my husbands face when he thought I was dying... It devestates me that I'm not the strong level headed person I use to be... How did I become this sad pathetic shell of a woman... How do I stop this ruining my life? How did I become this person that I'm disgusted and ashamed of.... Makes me cry just typing this.

anxiety_sux A tough spell versus the need for medical review
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Hi this is my first post here goes.....i have had anxiety for 13 years and have been on meds for most of that time.I have been through counselling, cbt and relaxation.I have had many times during which i have struggled and also many times where i hav... View more

Hi this is my first post here goes.....i have had anxiety for 13 years and have been on meds for most of that time.I have been through counselling, cbt and relaxation.I have had many times during which i have struggled and also many times where i have felt well.My question to others is this: How do you decide whether you are going through another rough patch and just need to continue doing what you know works or whether you are not doing so well and need to go back for medical review and possibly further counselling.Five weeks ago i lost my mum to parkinsons disease, i saw her go through many horrible things.My anxiety has always been health related and i now find myself struggling, i am not sure whether this is normal grief and a process i must move through or whether i need to revisit my doctor and increase my medication to help me cope or go back to counseliing to help me through the grief process.I am starting to feel as the weeks go by that i am not doing any better but instead getting worse.Anyone out there been through anything similar and what did you do????

Confused_joel First time speaking about my anxiety
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Hey I am a 25 year old male and have been having severe crippling bouts of anxiety for a few weeks now. i first dealt with anxiety when I was about 10 years old and it was just as bad as now from memory, no appetite, shaking, constant worrying about ... View more

Hey I am a 25 year old male and have been having severe crippling bouts of anxiety for a few weeks now. i first dealt with anxiety when I was about 10 years old and it was just as bad as now from memory, no appetite, shaking, constant worrying about my health. However in time it passd (maybe a few month) i have not not had a relapse since then but out of no where they have begun again and have come back with a vengeance. i feel light headed, twitchy, worried about my health, nauseous, and lost my appetite. someone please help me with their own stories of triumph or anyone that suffers something similar. thank you

Eme STRUGGLE CITY, WAKING UP LIKE I HAVENT SLEPT
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Hi, I have had an onset of Anxiety since giving birth 13 weeks ago, very long story. My problem is even if I have a great day, only snippets of Anxiety I wake up in the morning feeling so hungover.. I feel dizzy or lightheaded until my BLood Pressure... View more

Hi, I have had an onset of Anxiety since giving birth 13 weeks ago, very long story. My problem is even if I have a great day, only snippets of Anxiety I wake up in the morning feeling so hungover.. I feel dizzy or lightheaded until my BLood Pressure settles I'm assuming. As my body is tired as I'm not going into a deep sleep. I don't have a problem getting to sleep or staying asleep but it's that my mind isn't shutting off so I'm not going into a deep sleep. Does anyone else have this problem?! Thanks Eme

Wilma Problems asking for help
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I have major anxiety problems that have been caused from me not being able to open up to anyone. I have had a good gp who has helped me in talking to them at least and have seen a psychologist and therapist but my problem is when I leave their office... View more

I have major anxiety problems that have been caused from me not being able to open up to anyone. I have had a good gp who has helped me in talking to them at least and have seen a psychologist and therapist but my problem is when I leave their office it is so easy to see what to do but so hard to put into practice. I feel I need more than a visit a fortnight to help me. My gp has now moved out of town so need to start all over again. My partner can't understand me when I don't either and I have turned away and don't show any affection to him which we both don't understand. I seem to have given up on everything I can't fix which isn't good considering I have a family and run a business, which are both feeling it. I don't see any friends or family much and when I do I tell them I am fine. One of my sons has anxiety problems which with my own problems are not helping him because I can't be strong for him like I need to. I have tried medication but they made me feel unwell and don't know if I can wait months to try other ones. Everything just seems so hard when it's not really, it's just the way I see it. My partner also has depression problems and it is seeming harder to help myself with the other problems around me. I have been told not to take on my partners problems, only my kids, but it's so hard not to take them on as I know he takes mine on. I have no suicidal thoughts which being in a country town puts you near the bottom of the list. Just very confused, broken and lost.