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BeyondBlue Hi! Check out this post if you're not sure how to start
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Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are... View more

Hi there and welcome to the Anxiety section of the Forums First of all, thank you so much for joining us here. We think it’s amazing that you’ve taken this step to getting support and learning from this Community. You are very welcome here and we are really interested in what you might want to add to these conversations. We get it, having anxiety makes it hard to share in a public place. Remember, this is anonymous and the Beyond Blue team are here to help if you need it This section is for people who are experiencing anxiety in some form in their lives. This might be in social settings, at work, or just in the day to day. You don’t need a diagnosis to post here. If it feels like the right spot for your post, go right ahead! We know that feeling anxious can make it hard to reach out so we want you to know that getting this far is amazing and a great start. A few tips for getting the most out of this section: Get involved when you can! Posting and replying is the heartbeat of this community and you DO have something worthwhile to share (when you’re ready ) Every experience is different. There is no competition here. We know how challenging anxiety can be and how it comes in all shapes and sizes. What you are experiencing will be respected and supported here. Trust yourself! You are the expert in your experience. This community works because people like you share what has worked for you. Thank you for getting involved and taking a look. We can’t wait to hear from you! Beyond Blue

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PsychedelicFur Trying my absolute best
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Here is a little clarification. Let me explain ; Up until a month or two months ago my father and I were on the verge of homelessness. As we had to sell our house due to my parent’s divorce and we had been applying for places to live but there were m... View more

Here is a little clarification. Let me explain ; Up until a month or two months ago my father and I were on the verge of homelessness. As we had to sell our house due to my parent’s divorce and we had been applying for places to live but there were many rejections that we faced. Luckily we have a house now! So basically I pretty much live in certain cases of poverty. Most times we barely have enough money to pay bills and grocery shopping can be very expensive. Sometimes we resort back to community resources - like food banks: and they help tremendously! So appreciative of them! I study at university but I am just concerned that my life will always be like this. I sometimes feel like having goals, ambitions and dreams in my life is a slight waste of time.. because I have grown up in this type of environment all of my life. Not much money, so much financial stress and so much hardship.. I’m a definite high achiever and I study hard. And above all else I am thoroughly invested in my studies. I love learning! I just feel like I am experiencing so much unnecessary stress and anxiety, haha don’t we all feel that way though?! My mother was psychologically abusive towards me and I’ve had to parent my father, in some ways. Plus I am a misfit and don’t have many friends my age. Plus my first ever proper relationship made me feel unappreciated and undesirable. Seven months no contact with him though! YAY! Life is so uncertain and sad. I’m just trying my absolute best. I hope I can achieve my goals and be a better version of myself. PF.

Coco18-8 Social anxiety to loneliness
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Hi, I just wanted to say that I feel so anxious right now because I just got home from work and had to walk behind three girls awkwardly and another situation was me and this other girl had to wait together and I tried to make small talk but messed i... View more

Hi, I just wanted to say that I feel so anxious right now because I just got home from work and had to walk behind three girls awkwardly and another situation was me and this other girl had to wait together and I tried to make small talk but messed it all up. Was very awkward. It feels anything I ever do is awkward and eveyone at my work is so close and friends and I’m this outsider. I’ve been here for a year so it’s not like because I’m new. And I told my dad I literally have no friends and he was like that’s what you said a year ago. Then it really put it in perspective I’m never going to have more friends I’m incapable of making them and will be alone forever. I love my friends now but I know after we graduate I will loose half of them and I’ll be even more alone then I imagine myself to be alone for the future. I just want a friends at work and just makes me think this is how my life will be for the rest of my life . No more new friends , just lonliness. Idk why put I just can’t escape the fear of being alone and it’s making me have the fear of making friendships

PeachPenguin Feeling overwhelmed
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Hi everyone Feeling very overwhelmed at the moment. My father has suddenly become ill (I’m an only child and my mother passed some years ago, therefore I’m his only immediate family), a couple of weeks ago my partner was hospitalised, he is fully rec... View more

Hi everyone Feeling very overwhelmed at the moment. My father has suddenly become ill (I’m an only child and my mother passed some years ago, therefore I’m his only immediate family), a couple of weeks ago my partner was hospitalised, he is fully recovered now. My job is also quite high pressure and although my manager is really supportive it causes me a significant amount of stress. I just feel like I can’t catch a break at the moment! I’ve reached out to my EAP service through work which has been somewhat helpful however I just feel my general resilience is decreasing. Would love to hear about any helpful coping strategies, advice or anything to get me out of this slump.

Steveo22 Anxiety at upcoming treatments
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Hello This is my first post here. I have a major current health issue that I have to be treated for and am having major anxiety about facing and completing this treatment. I have long term PTSD and anxiety that I have had for most of my adult life. I... View more

Hello This is my first post here. I have a major current health issue that I have to be treated for and am having major anxiety about facing and completing this treatment. I have long term PTSD and anxiety that I have had for most of my adult life. I have at times sought help but never stuck with it. The way I feel at the moment is I have enough mental power to deal with life generally but in the face of this current situation im really having trouble coping and remaining positive. I feel some of these old long term anxiety issues starting to take control. I had a major anxiety attack while testing and fitment of a mask used in treatment. It was humiliating and distressing and has rattled me going forward as I will have to use this mask daily for 7 weeks.

jacq Unemployed, unburdened by responsibilities, and inert anyway. I don't respect myself.
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I don't know how to cope with all the responsibilities of genuinely going into therapy, and doing 'the work'. It has made me realise, that I had become that person who asks therapy of every conversation, without meaning to, but because my mind was al... View more

I don't know how to cope with all the responsibilities of genuinely going into therapy, and doing 'the work'. It has made me realise, that I had become that person who asks therapy of every conversation, without meaning to, but because my mind was already filled with the self obsession that arises during problem overload, when there is a million things that need to be fixed. I've become someone who I find difficult to like, and so do others. I have lost most of my friends, and the ones I have retained have had to make their boundaries very known to me. I have been in hospital three times for breaking into psychotic episodes. All of them were mortifying, more than I can express, and I hurt people close to me by morphing into the jagged, cruel, judgmental, misanthropic voice that has been a demon in my thoughts, growing with every humiliation for years. I don't want this part of me to be what I hear anymore. I do as much as I can journaling it out and monitoring, but I still seem to keep acting the wrong way, hurting people and getting hurt. I am ashamed of so much. I grew up in a rich area and have had great privelege (even though my family of 5 were living off one school teacher's wages and we didn't qualify as rich, actually I was quite left out as a child because my reality was so different to lots of my peers), my parents are still together, I have had financial support from them and the government when I've been poor, and this has been my only independant experience of money. I have lived soulfully enough, and thought that I loved, but lately I've been wondering if I only experience love as the desperate do. I used to think I was someone worthy of being loved, but I actually don't have any reason why. I used to think I loved, but I can't quantify this without many possible abstractions too. I am afraid of my mind, because I have lost it, and my memories have suffered. I am not suicidal but I am desperate and feel like the mind of a priest sharing the mind and body of a criminal. Is there any exercises I can do that can ease this ultimate shame feeling? I can't even volunteer right now during lockdown, I can't find a job, there's no redemption acts I can take except somehow change myself into a better person.

Damien2812 GAD Questions..
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Hi all Just wondering if anyone with GAD has had any problems with GAD affecting them in everything they do in daily life such as in relationships, work or doubting if you can learn or do something etc.. How have you gone by managing this in your lif... View more

Hi all Just wondering if anyone with GAD has had any problems with GAD affecting them in everything they do in daily life such as in relationships, work or doubting if you can learn or do something etc.. How have you gone by managing this in your life so far?

_allovertheplace Bad anxiety day
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Hi all, I haven’t posted here for a number of years but here I am today. I don’t want to burden those around me so I thought I would put my feelings here almost like a journal. I’m 31, diagnosed depression and generalised anxiety, medicated and previ... View more

Hi all, I haven’t posted here for a number of years but here I am today. I don’t want to burden those around me so I thought I would put my feelings here almost like a journal. I’m 31, diagnosed depression and generalised anxiety, medicated and previously seen psychs etc. I also have a psych degree so I know all about CBT and other therapies and use them for myself very often. My mental health is an everyday battle and for whatever reason, today I am feeling all sorts of dread. Super irritable and annoyed with everyone, generally anxious and low. I have my first covid vax dose in 2 days time and I’m one of the last people I know being vaxxed. Not from a lack of trying, as I wanted desperately to go somewhere local and was just impossible for the longest time. So I think I have a fear of being left out of socialising with my loved ones until I have the second dose and I’m worried about what it’ll do to my mental state. I realise I’m a bit all over the place with this post and I don’t know what I expect people to say. I just needed to get it out

Rubygirlx 25 and don't have 1 close friend - social anxiety
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Is it normal to be 25 and not have any close friends? I have always been an outsider ever since high school and the older I get the worse it has become. It's so hard for me to talk to people and connect with them. I automatically feel that whatever I... View more

Is it normal to be 25 and not have any close friends? I have always been an outsider ever since high school and the older I get the worse it has become. It's so hard for me to talk to people and connect with them. I automatically feel that whatever I am saying is just stupid and then I just end up tripping on my words, it's so embarrassing. I find it so hard to fit in with a new group and just find myself staying quiet. I have an extroverted boyfriend and he is great but sometimes it just makes me sad when I see him and all his groups of friends. I get sad because I think I never have felt that loved and support by a group of people. any tips or ideas on how to overcome this?

Maxy333 Hating self
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I'm suffering from terrable guilt and shame that makes me self loathing , my hatered for myself is depressing me. I'm not to sure how to turn this around.

I'm suffering from terrable guilt and shame that makes me self loathing , my hatered for myself is depressing me. I'm not to sure how to turn this around.

Tugboat Health Anxiety again!
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Hi it’s me again! I have been suffering health anxiety on and off for over 30 years. Currently going through a rough patch again and waiting to have an ultrasound. My anxiety is very high at the moment and my mind will not slow down thinking all nega... View more

Hi it’s me again! I have been suffering health anxiety on and off for over 30 years. Currently going through a rough patch again and waiting to have an ultrasound. My anxiety is very high at the moment and my mind will not slow down thinking all negative thoughts. My mornings are the worst time and as the day goes on it eases only a little. I am extremely teary and cannot eat as I feel sick. I am struggling going to work and just doing normal every day things.

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