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tk22
Community Member

hey, so um.

i dont really know what to do anymore, with school. I just cant learn and focus, i dont know why but its really getting to me. and i just feel like all of the teachers hate me and every time i walk through the school gates i feel so alone. and to top it off im losing like all of my friends and oh my gosh. 

 it hurts and it sucks.

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Neil_1
Community Member

Dear TK

Hey, I'm so sorry that your post hasn't been responded to yet - and I so hope that you're still around.

I would like to wish you a warm welcome to Beyond Blue and to thank you for coming here.

The school situation sounds really tough - would it be ok to ask what Year you are in??

Also, when you say you're losing your friends - is it because you're pushing them away or are you feeling some other thing that is contributing to this?

With regard to your studies and also the teachers, do you have like a counsellor or a House Teacher who you might be able to talk with - on both these issues?

I'm sorry that I've bombarded you with questions, but I hope you can get back to us on those, so we can be better informed so we can try to help you through your current situation.

Kind regards

Neil

 

AGrace
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi tk,

I can see that Neil has asked some really good questions,and I hope you are able to get back to us on your responses. I also wanted to add, thanks for being really brave and posting on the forums.

Life in general can be tough when your young, when you add emotions to the mix it makes it that little bit more difficult. Have you been able to speak with your parents about how you are feeling? It's hard to believe but they were school age once too, and no doubt went through similar experiences.

Has there been anything that has happened at school that has triggered your heightened emotional state? Is there a reason you think all the teachers don't like you? Are there any teachers that you get on well with?

What subjects do you enjoy at school? It might also be worth finding something that gets you motivated to study, perhaps a future career aspiration?

Are you sleeping, eating, and exercising ok? Sometimes if these are off balance it can really affect our concentration levels. Are you able to concentrate on other things despite school work?

What sorts of things do you do to ensure you get some down time during the school holidays?

I do hope we will hear more from you.

AGrace