I have been teased all of my years of my school

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Hello, my name is Natalia and I have been teased and bullied. I remember I had cried and cried and all I thought about was to self-harm myself and hate my life. A couple of years later it was very best I moved to another school with the best supportive teacher and best network of teams who helped me when I was struggling. I have an important question for people like me if you get bullied all year what the point of continuing your life if the bullying continues all your life you can escape but you can't run from the fact that you are getting bullied. 

[meeeeeeee]

hey, i feel u so much 

but dont end your life no matter what! you have so much 2 live for! and when you finish school it will get better, i promise! 

and i wish someone told me that more often cause i also have thoughts like that but it will get better! please reach out if you need to talk! 

lots of love and hope

inkah 

[Chestnut]

Hi Lovely, 

getting bullied is hard I can understand how your feeling. I promise you though, it gets better. When I was in school I used to always stress about the way I looked, if it was “good enough” to not get gossiped about or how I acted, if I was too “me”. I ended up leaving early to per-sue in another area. I can whole heartedly tell you it gets better, don’t let people who are hurting hurt you.  You seem like an amazing person, remember, you are smart, worthy and beautiful. Don’t let others actions decide otherwise. Stand strong you’ve got this, you have family and supporters by your side💗

[therising]

Hi Natalia

I hope that by offering a different perspective this might make some positive difference to you. I hope so, I truly do.

Consider you have the natural ability to feel the kinds of people who raise you and inspire you and feel the kinds of people who are degrading, depressing and are going to bring you down. If I asked you to get a feel for who's who, I'd imagine you'd easily be able to tell me. The people who raised you and inspired you at your new school are the types of people who lead you to feel more alive. These types of people are good for the soul and our mental health. The people who bring us down are the ones we can be led to wonder about. 'Why are these people so depressing? Why can they not inspire? Why do they think in the ways they do? Why would they want to bring about mental health issues for others?' and the list of questions goes on. Highly questionable people (in this way) typically aren't all that good for us. They don't tend to bring us to life and we can feel that because we have the ability to feel.

I think a really important question to ask is 'How can I master my ability to sense or feel all the different people in my life?'. So, it can go from 'It's my fault or my flaw that I'm sensitive' to 'I have the ability to sense'. When you begin to develop the ability to sense, this comes with a lot of positive side effects. You can feel the types of people you're best staying away from. You can feel the types of managers who you don't want to continue working for. You don't waste time staying in that job. You can feel the types of people you meet socially as ones you'd like as friends and ones you feel no desire to get to know any further' etc etc. In other words, you become someone who's highly intuitive. You will always meet bullies throughout your life here and there. Bullies come in all shapes, sizes and ages. If you become a master at feeling them in your presence, you can also become a master at managing them. A highly intuitive person who learns to confidently trust in their ability to feel is no match for a bully.