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tom122727
Community Member
don't know where else to get support im here on my failing love life as i feel alone and that i feel like no girl wants me, no matter how honest i am, my name is tomas i am 21 male and im suffering from depression, anxiety, ptsd, panic attacks i have been thinking about that my life is pathetic and that I'm a worthless failure i did have postive thoughts before i expireinced my traumatic event and i am struggling to deal with my emotions i feel like people dont understand me, girls dont understand me all together. i jsut feel like i am nothing just like i am thrown out by girls like nothing.
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Sophie_M
Moderator
Moderator
Hi Tomas,

Welcome to the Beyond Blue forums. We think it's great that you reached out to our community tonight, and we think you are really brave for doing so. Please know that you are a valuable part of our community already.

This 'Welcome and orientation' part of the forums is primarily for introducing yourself to the community. We would love to get to know you. Maybe you can tell us a few things about yourself, like what kinds of things are you interested in, or tell us about your family.

If any community members are wanting to support Tomas with some of the difficulties which he introduces here, you can find his thread 'feel like i won't ever be loved or wanted by girls' in the Suicidal thoughts and self harm section:
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/relationship-and-family-issues/feel-like-i-w...

Since you have asked where else you might get support, we would recommend that you access counselling for young people such as yourself through the following organisations: 

. Headspace - https://headspace.org.au/
. Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800 or https://kidshelpline.com.au/ (webchat is available)

Welcome Tomas!
 

well one thing i like is watching tv shows i watch one called my little pony and i do pony collecting is one thing im interested in it does kinda calm me down