Im new, mum, not alot of friends or family

[lexy5118]

Hi,

Im Alex and i have come on here to talk to someone.

I'm feeling quiet alone in my life. I dont have alot of family support or many friends.

My mum and dad are both asstranged from themselves and from me.

I6m a mum of two kids and have my 3rd baby on the way (due April)

i do have a very supportive partner but he has to look after himself too.

I am really struggling to cope with my feelings right now. I find it hard when i hear of people that have their parents to help and support them and i dont have any of that...

[JosieK]

Hi Alex,

Welcome to the forum. I am also new here.

I unfortunately don’t have any real advice to offer but i’ll gladly be a friend and someone you can talk to about what your feeling, if that’s what you need.

JosieK x

[baet123]

Hi Alex,

Welcome to the forums and thank you for sharing your story with us. It takes a great amount of courage and bravery to express your emotions and talk to someone about it. You should be extremely proud of that amongst many other qualities you have. You may feel like we are alone, but many people do care about you just most of us don't show it a lot of the time.

Sorry to hear that you are struggling at present but it is great to hear that you have a supportive partner but you are right in the sense that he must look after himself to. Its a real juggling act caring for yourself and others. Unfortunately, many people struggle with this and this is far to common.

Have you tried contacting your parents or reconnecting with them? There are also many social groups which you could take a look into if you are looking to build your social network and build a great support foundation. Platforms including meetup and w3app might be beneficial for your situation.

I would also recommend seeing a health professional (GP) and consulting him about the way your feeling at present. GP's have so so so much information and services readily available to assist you. If you are not comfortable expressing your feelings to your GP that is 100% fine and completely normal, however, intervention and coping techniques would definitely benefit you. When you feel that your quality of life is worsening due to your feelings and emotions, I believe intervention is beneficial. Tomorrow or during the week if your up to it, visit your GP and speak to him about your situation and he/she will be able to assist you. Maybe even speak to him about medication to treat your condition (as long as you are medically cleared to take certain medication due to your pregnancy) and also ask your GP about a mental health care plan.

I can tell your extremely resilient, caring and loving and don't ever lose those qualities. We are here for you whenever you need to speak to someone. Stay strong and positive! It will get better.

Look forward to hearing from you again shortly.

Your friend,

Nick.