dear Ruby, I know that you are now struggling with your depression so this must be annoying for you, but your input to the site can also help other people who can click with yours, so it can work both ways, so let's help you.
At he bottom of each post there are two boxes, 'reply' and 'report post', so just click onto 'Reply' rather than 'Post a Reply' which I haven't clicked at all, so the comment will then come back to you with an empty box and will have your name next to it, so then just start typing.
If you look at your number of posts which you posted or replied back to someone your 3 posts will then change to 4 posts.
Hope this explains your concern.
Can I also say that there are an enormous amount of people who are still struggling with their own depression but also want to reply to other people,as their comment hits a sensitive nerve so they feel as though they want to help this person.
Hope this helps. L Geoff. x
Hi there. I tried sending some posts the other day as well, and they seemed to have disappeared into cyber land. Maybe I was pushing the wrong buttons as well, I don't know.
Either way, your message has shown up now, so I hope you have better satisfaction in the future with more messages. I find it helps me immensely when I consider the struggles other people are going through, and I think I can give them some advice, if not then at least some form of connection and the realisation that other people have been through something similar and have empathy with them.
Geoff has given us both a good explanation of how to work things out, so hopefully we will both have more success with our posts and messages to others.
Hope you have a day filled with hope and you find reasons to smile.
Cheerio, from Dools.
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