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ChrissyStar Narcissism support group online
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Hi, I'm looking for an online support group for narcissism related issues. Where/what would I put in the search bar to find this? If one doesn't exist - what about for other topics? If I can check out how it all works maybe I could start one. Because... View more

Hi, I'm looking for an online support group for narcissism related issues. Where/what would I put in the search bar to find this? If one doesn't exist - what about for other topics? If I can check out how it all works maybe I could start one. Because obviously there's a gap which needs to be filled if it's not out there already!? I had in mind something like AA...or NA...are there similar groups online for those who live remote? If not & I wish to start one...how would I go about it. Just like a social group which meets, but online...via what platform? I have tracked narcissism as the cause of my issues & of environmental issues currently destroying our planet (capitalism = narcissism). It's a really important issue both personally & culturally. Thank you for reading & replying.

Guest_34496110 Believe my husband is showing narsistic behaviours
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Hi. I am hoping to connect with others who may be able to give me support. My husband over the years is becoming very verbally agressive when he is asked to perform simple tasks around the house. These tasks are sometimes many years in the waiting an... View more

Hi. I am hoping to connect with others who may be able to give me support. My husband over the years is becoming very verbally agressive when he is asked to perform simple tasks around the house. These tasks are sometimes many years in the waiting and he says numerous times he will do it…such as put roof screws on the house that are two years outstanding…I cannot do this and he refuses to pay so someone to do it. When it was mentioned recently he stated well you find someone to do it and tell me how much that will cost you. He does not like being asked to do simple things and gets quite verbally nasty and then later on gets the shits with me because I don’t engage in conversation. He is very manipulative but now I have had enough.

Jessten Lost on what to do
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I am positing here as i am.at the point of feeling completely lost on what to do or who to talk to. Over the past 5 years i have been suffering with heslth anxiety. Last year i was diagnosed with ocd and asd as i see everything as black and white. To... View more

I am positing here as i am.at the point of feeling completely lost on what to do or who to talk to. Over the past 5 years i have been suffering with heslth anxiety. Last year i was diagnosed with ocd and asd as i see everything as black and white. To help me cope with the challenges of life and work i took extra leace lsst year whuch i got criticised for then on top of eveything i ended uo with appendicitis wh8cu i was also crticised on. This resulted in a change in my role at eork whch i worked hsrd to prove i coild do. I then had a family member get unwell and this week i have been off work unwell as i have hit breaking point with my body throwing different things at me. I was also advised of more potential teating to help md and bam another thing hits. I just dont know how to get through a day wuthout feeeling.likre om stuck and eveything i do is wrong

Guest_10319 Feeling unsettled
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I suffer from CPTSD and am in my sixties now. I engaged with a psychologist this morning (for the first time with them) and they went through the confidentiality guidelines. Now, my anxiety is in overdrive. Can my psychologist report my childhood abu... View more

I suffer from CPTSD and am in my sixties now. I engaged with a psychologist this morning (for the first time with them) and they went through the confidentiality guidelines. Now, my anxiety is in overdrive. Can my psychologist report my childhood abuse to the authorities? I was clear about only wanting to talk to someone, and that one of my abusers has passed away and the other is in their eighties.I'm not in danger, and neither is anyone else, so am I right in believing nothing can be reported?

Sareus What should I do if I think ive been misdiagnosed?
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I was diagnosed with schizophrenia but I'm learning about BPD and i feel its the cause of my hallucinations. I personally believe I have 5 or potentially more of the 9 symptoms I didnt really understand all of the criteria. And my hallucinations only... View more

I was diagnosed with schizophrenia but I'm learning about BPD and i feel its the cause of my hallucinations. I personally believe I have 5 or potentially more of the 9 symptoms I didnt really understand all of the criteria. And my hallucinations only occur when im under emotional or mental distress. I have symptoms of schizophrenia too so maybe I have both or neither, idk really know im just lost and confused and distressed about this whole thing. I cant get into a new therapist until February next year at minimum. This post probably doesnt fit but idk where to ask.

simps After 20 years BPD partner wants a divorce
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All that time and all the range, the screaming, the psychological abuse, i lost good friends because of the way she talks to people but i stuck by them accepted that this is a part of them, i love them for just who they are. but my actions were perce... View more

All that time and all the range, the screaming, the psychological abuse, i lost good friends because of the way she talks to people but i stuck by them accepted that this is a part of them, i love them for just who they are. but my actions were perceived as abandonment. plus we get to relive all the other things i did that they didn't like or upset them i understand the pain there going through, especially reliving all those thing one after another that has to be hard been 4 weeks in the other room any time i try and approach the topic, they split again and i am all bad once again, i would love to give them a cuddle and just say its going to be ok but they wont even talk and if they do its little poking comments that they would want to say anything because it might upset me i haven't yelled i haven't got angry, i have been hit, yelled at, called names, and i am still here.i am so lost

EvaMaria Weird way to start, but i need advice
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Hello, This is my first time here, and i want to vent out my frustrations while also getting some advice if anyone has any. I have recently moved states and (although i have some family here) my parents and siblings are a little bit scattered around ... View more

Hello, This is my first time here, and i want to vent out my frustrations while also getting some advice if anyone has any. I have recently moved states and (although i have some family here) my parents and siblings are a little bit scattered around QLD to Sydney, and Perth. Also all of my friends are back in Perth (where i lived since i was 5yo). But anyway, i have been having issues seeing myself worth, relying on social media to give me some kind of guidances and maybe even some stability. While also filling up my quiet days with tv or movies that i have watched a million times. At this point idk what I'm doing with myself throughout the day and at this point in my life, bc i always wanted to get out of Perth and expand my horizons but right now i feel stuck. The only place i go to outside of work and home (and all the shopping i do), is my painting class, but by December that will be finished and moneys a little tight for next term (maybe term 2).. forgive me for all the rambling, but that is mostly it. i am hoping maybe someone might have a different perspective, because i can only see negativity right now. Thank you

ribbonwhite How long did it for medication to work for you
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Just wanting to see how long it took to notice a change once starting medication? I'm only at day six but I feel like I'm getting worse. All I want to do is sleep because I don't want to be in "reality" the anxiety hasn't died down. I feel like my he... View more

Just wanting to see how long it took to notice a change once starting medication? I'm only at day six but I feel like I'm getting worse. All I want to do is sleep because I don't want to be in "reality" the anxiety hasn't died down. I feel like my heart is about to jump out of my chest, its so bad it hurts. I feel like my whole body is shaking and having "tick" like sensations. I must add this was all here before starting medication.Ive been prescribed two different medications is anyone able to give feed back? Prescribed for helo in treatment for PTSDTIA

Guest_16459694 Where to go from there?
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Hello,My husband left me nearly 3 years ago, we still haven't managed to divorce or find an agreement with a settlement. I have been sent to a domestic violence organisation and a psychologist by my GP. I am just starting to heal. I am concern about ... View more

Hello,My husband left me nearly 3 years ago, we still haven't managed to divorce or find an agreement with a settlement. I have been sent to a domestic violence organisation and a psychologist by my GP. I am just starting to heal. I am concern about our children; they are now young adults, and I want to make sure they don't follow the same pattern (either being a narcissist abuser or a victime). I also want to close this chapter of my life, but I feel my ex-husband will only be satisfied when I died. I have no family in Australia except my children. There is no escape for me.

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