Dear Imh. As much as I understand where you're coming from and I commend you for being there. The only mistake, (if you want to call it that) that I can see was when you said, as much as you try to push me away, I'm not going anywhere. I understand where you're coming from and it's good for him to know you are there, but you sounded as though you're forcing him to accept that whether he likes it or not, he's 'stuck' with you. I realize you didn't mean that, but, at first glance, that's how it came out. He knows you're there if and when he decides to talk, now the ball's in his court. You've done your bit, let him digest what you've said, he knows he can trust you, that's ultra important. If he wants you to go with him to Dr/counsellor, he knows you will. However, if he doesn't, or he decides he doesn't want to talk to a counsellor either, you'll have to accept this as well. It's a good supportive letter, now give him the space to digest and think about it.
Best wishes, hope everything works out for you both.
