Welcome to BB. I hope we can help you and provide a few tips.
Your boyfriend can be pleased that he has someone to care about him. It sounds as though he has been through a lot. All those illnesses. Was he in hospital for a while? It sounds as though he should have been.
Feeling pretty down after all that seems quite normal to me. And ending up with a broken arm must be the last straw. Also being away from family can be upsetting.
I presume he is still receiving medical treatment. Does he see his GP? Perhaps you could get him to tell his GP how miserable he is feeling. Any decent GP will pick up on this and pursue it further. The key really is to talk to a doctor, even if it is his orthopedic doctor, so they are aware of his difficulties.
Feeling listless can be the result of the illnesses he has had and may go away as he regains his strength, but if you are concerned then it is time for him to see his doctor.
Getting your boyfriend out of the house is a good way to go. Sunshine and fresh air are really powerful aids. Also gentle walks as I expect he is not up to doing much just yet. Exercise and sun are proven antidotes to depression, even in small amounts.
If he wishes to study in the near future can he start any reading or investigating his options? Having a goal is important and doing some research into the necessary training is both practical for his ambition and will give him something constructive to do. Talking and texting can be tiring, so keep it a minimum. Just keeping him company is comforting and does not place a strain on his fragility.
Keep posting here and tell us how you are managing.
Regards
LING
