Three things you aren't sorry about today...

[Guest9337]

I am not sorry for opening this thread. I am not sorry for Inviting everyone to have a go at it! I am not sorry for helping people practicing to not say sorry too much!

Idea, a thread were we aren't sorry about hate, ingratitude, being safe, thinking about revenge and acting for fair restoration.

In this thread people are encouraged to practice avoiding saying sorry in a moral and friendly way.

I am not sorry that I stand up for rights about children.

I am not sorry that I spilt the milk, but I will clean it up right now.

Other forms we might take are less about letting go of sorry, and more about using what you are sorry about as motivation.

I make no apologies for feeling hate about what is happening to children in detention centres and I'm going to write a letter about it!

I refuse to be sorry for any one who wears hot red revealing shorts and a boob tube to a funeral and has been told they cannot come inside.

I am not sorry that I said “fair go mate!” when someone elses child hurt my finger.

I am not sorry that I broke up with my abusive partner, so that I can be safer.

I am not sorry that you got drunk because you believe I told my best friend I like the movie One flew over the cuckoos nest, when I’ve previously told you I don’t like it.

I am not sorry for changing my mind, I have new information now and am making a better decision now than back then.

When anger rises, I will not apologise for being angry, because the thing that makes me angry is against the laws of Australia.

Or how about.
I will not be sorry about plotting a morally fair a legal revenge upon my abuser.

I am not sorry for thinking about or wanting to kill someone that I will never meet and have no real intentions of taking action to harm them or anyone else.

I cannot apologise for feeling hateful towards the people who purposefully and wilfully cause direct and severe harm to the elderly.

I’m not sorry for feeling excitement about the potential of this thread not being helpful, because I hope and pray that peoples actions about my inspiration will be entirely helpful!

dng

[Katyonthehamsterwheel]

I’m not sorry that I’m a random stranger sending you virtual hugs, dng and unsure

I’m not sorry I’m in bed stuffing my face again

I’m not sorry I hate winter. Winter is stupid.

[Unsure77]

For starters thankyou for the hugs, I hate winter too.

I'm not sorry for having beers tonight.

[Guest_1643]

hi all

i'm not sorry that i am obsessing over small things. i'm trying to cope and my mind is trying to keep me safe in this strange way

i'm not sorry that i didn't put myself first today, but am going to try harder for the rest of the weekend

i'm not sorry for taking space away from ppl today

[Guest9337]

I am not sorry for starting round two of the lucky discussion with wife.

I am not sorry for something that is real and observable.

I am not sorry for wife's over reactions to our discussion about luck.

[supababe]

Hello David 'n' goliath,

Thank you for this wonderful thread:

1. I'm not sorry that we had to isolate at home & stay safe, making others safe also

2. I'm not sorry that sometimes I'm not always understood, clear or precise; (it's always clear in one's head)

3. I'm not sorry that we have the freedom to express own options, in our own way.

Thanks as this is my first post 🙂

[Guest_1643]

i'm not sorry for having my ownways of doing things

I'm not sorry for watching trashy tv sometimes, and finding it soothing. I'm not sorry for not being highbrow.

I'm not sorry for being hurt a bit by someones comment. I'm not sorry for feeling suspicious of a strange gift. I'm not sorry for standing up for myself and loving myself more than my abusers would like.

[Unsure77]

I'm not sorry for still being in love with my ex partner.

im not sorry for trying to contact her make sure she is ok, even though her kids won't tell her I have.

im not sorry for the decision I made

[quirkywords]

Supababe

welcome to the forums. Thanks for making your first post here and sharing your thoughts.

I relate to your no 2 , I am not sorry as I tend to confuse people as I know what I want to say but I can ramble.

I am not sorry for being tired for many reasons that some don’t see or understand

I am not sorry for standing up for myself

I am not sorry for still being affected from a traumatic event 19 months ago.

Thanks again DnG for this thread. Hope you are feeling better.

[Guest_1643]

Hi Quirky - i relate to that

i'm always tired and unsatisfied with the quality of sleep

i'm bothered by a tooth ache today, i'm not sorry if i have to leave my dentist to find someone who can see me sooner. im also not sorry if i decie to wait it out just bcuse i want to see my own dentist. not sorry fo rmaking inconsistent choices and deciding what feels comfy for me on the day

i'm not sorry for barely excercising all year, and now starting to get into it, which seemingly should make me feel bad, but hey, they timing wasn't right

i'm not sorry for not wanting to speak to certain difficult ppl on the phone, so opting for email today to make me feel safer.

i'm not sorry for finding this thread comforting

i'm not sorry for eating foods that i barely need to cook because im low on energy

i'm not sorry for needing lots and lots of help with my mental health and for leaning into that and acceptig it.

[Guest_1643]

i'm not sorry for not being decisive when i'm stressed, maybe everything was a little overwhelming for me at that time and it was extra hard to focus- in.

i'm not sorry for sometimes relying on others when i'm at my lowest

i'm not sorry for puttng my tv on loud

i'm not sorry for not feeling awesome atm