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Night Owls (for those awake late and can't sleep)

Croix
Community Champion
Community Champion

Dear All
The purpose of this thread is as a meeting point for those that can’t sleep and it is late (I.E. AFTER midnight.)

It can be a useful space for users to share their issues with insomnia as well as coping strategies. It can also be a general space for users to converse and support one another throughout a difficult night.

Please note – for those that are just bored or lonely we already have a place - the BB Café, which I recommend instead of here

https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/online-forums/bb-social-zone/the-bb-cafe

Croix

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Matchy69
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Yes Tee anon a relationship ending can be one of the hardest things you can go through.I have found it harder to deal with then losing someone passing away.I hope you can work through this tough period you are going through.A relationship needs to have to committed parties who are willing to work things out during the bad times.Every relationship is different but have one comment thing two people who love each other.
Mark.

Tee anon

i am sorry you are experiencing hard times and pleased you are both working hard for the relationship.

Sophie and Mark , have given you support and suggestions. You are not alone and there is support here for you.

Sophie mentioned you could start your own thread and that way more people would see your posts, if you wanted to.

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

hello all

my sleep has been very all over the place. Not much helps me which is upsetting

I either wake up eevry hour or can't sleep well at all

I'm sorry others struggle with this also... it can be so frustrating and i know how hard it can be. take care everyone.

Matchy69
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Sleepy and am sorry you are still having trouble sleeping.I wish their was an easy answer to it.

Take care,

Mark.

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

thanks Mark

it is frustrating.

Sleepy I feel for you about having trouble sleeping. For about 30 years

I have not slept for more than 2 hrs at once and maybe only 4to 5 hrs a night. I can get to sleep then I wake up and can’t get back to sleep. I have tried everything but I have a physical condition that wakes me up.

I have sort of accepted it but I am always tired and I wonder what life would be like if I could sleep for 6 hrs without waking. Bliss,,

I wish you and others having trouble all the best.

quirky

ecomama
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hey Emo (HI to everyone also)

I'm so glad you came back and yes I hear you about BF, well I sorted him out lol you'd be proud of me.

As I'M SO PROUD OF YOU! Huge hugs. Stay linked here and wherever else you can, you WILL get there. I don't just have confidence in you, I have 100% confidence in you.

Sorry it took me so long to get back to you with the Uni info (I won't fill you in on the capers here of both ends of the spectrum lol), here it is; Alexa said she did her first psych degree thru Southern Cross University and she found them "great"!
I won't mention the next one's name, Covid was involved, it was messy, she left.

Now she's doing her Honours 2y part time.

We're in NSW.

I asked her a bit but if you have more questions I can relay them to her & give you her response.

I asked about HOW and WHERE she did her exams as I was thinking of your situation.
That the Uni organises a place for you to do your exams and she thinks they usually take place within Uni grounds, at a Uni closest to you. BUT they may organise a different place. She said you can email questions to them directly also.

Just aside point I was just thinking about re: your entry quals.
The Psych degree was Alexa's 3rd, she used her HSC mark to get into the Journalism one.
Then piggy backed off those marks etc etc cascading into the next etc.

Yvette told me yesterday (not sure if it's true but sounds likely) that in NSW a student's HSC Mark or ATAR only lasts 3y. Omg... so it "expires".

If THIS is the case for you then the Uni you plan to enrol in needs to answer which "Bridging Course" you need to complete to gain ENTRY as an enrolment in the Psych Degree.
Quite a few of my friends my age have completed the 1y Bridging Course at Uni first.

Maybe I'll speak to you more through my thread re: visualising your new life and HOW to get there. I won't have all the answers BUT more often than not, when you DECIDE upon a destination, then opportunities will come into your path.

Re: Centrelink payments.
You need to speak with a Centrelink Social Worker.
You can tell them you are "separated under the same roof" and you have zero financial resources at your disposal.
Please be as open with them as you can, mentioning DV helps.

Lots of love
EM

ecomama
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hey Tee anon

A huge warm welcome to the BB forums.
I'm so glad you're here but sorry about feeling depressed (and anxious?) about the situation with your partner. Hugs.

I echo other's suggestion and really encourage you to begin your own thread.
It's beautiful how the forum members respond and I just don't want you feel unsupported as your posts on this thread might get a bit "lost in the mix".

Sending Prayers
Love EM

ecomama
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Dear Sleepy, welcome back!

I've missed you so much!

How have been gorgeous girl?

Love EM

Mudcakes
Community Member

Anyone up for a night/morning chat?

Night owl Mudcakes here.😄 I’m tired but not sleep tired yet. How have you all been?