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Meditation, Manifesting, Gratitude & The Law of Attraction

CMF
Blue Voices Member
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Hi everyone,

Not sure where to start so hope I can express myself clearly and maybe with others' input we can expand on this. I'm interested in people's thoughts/ experience with meditation, manifesting, gratitude & the law of attraction. I've recently started using the Smiling Mind app to meditate when going to sleep and sometimes when feeling a little anxious, like tonight. It is something i thought i could never do as my mind rarely stops, however, with persistence, I find I enjoy it. I guess i tend to have a negative mindset which I am determined to change.I always felt uneasy about thinking positive things as i thought i would jinx myself, and that whenever I made a positive comment or felt happy it would go wrong or something negative would happen. So i refrained from allowing myself to be too happy, I guess to 'protect' myself. Recently i have been feeling happier, stronger, expressing gratitude and taking note of when things have come to me when i needed them. Coincidence, or answers to what i put out to the Universe? I like to think the latter. A work colleague one day told me to manifest something i wanted, put it out to the universe , so I'm trying. Example, recently we needed to measure the floor space at reception so we could calculate how many people we could have in at one time. I needed a tape measure, which i did not have. At that moment our handyman walked into the office. Guess what he had? I am getting into the habit of practising positive thinking instead of thinking/expecting negatives. If something 'negative' does crop up, it can be dealt with, it's not the end of the world. I look for the positive in every negative situation. I am becoming more aware of being grateful for little things, things like getting a good car park at work, a warn cosy bed, a tidy house. I feel when i am expressing gratitude I am putting positive thoughts out into the universe and I notice more positives instead of focusing on negatives. Late last week we had internet issues at work and a colleague i found a little annoying. I've been feeling very drained, agitated, negative for a few days. This morning things were not running smoothly for me. A result of my negative mind perhaps? Little things became a big deal, my morning was crap. If i look back, it wasn't really an issue, i just did things in a different order which gave me more relax time this evening. The Law of Attraction, positive thoughts, positive experiences.

What are your thoughts?

cmf x

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therising
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Hi CMF

You are definitely in the flow of the magic. This is so exciting 🙂

I can clearly see you in the future as being an educator for others when it comes to how to work the magic. Of course, whether that's the course you take is up to you. You may become so incredibly stunning at it that you just can't help yourself but want to share with others how it's done. Btw, you're already stunning at it yet 'stunning' can be taken up multiple levels. Included are the levels of downright shocking and completely unbelievable. You've already graduated to manifesting for others. I can see you in a cap and gown 🙂

Sometimes I can't help but wonder 'Has the level of understanding I've gained in life so far led me to graduate beyond life's version of secondary school or have I just graduated from it's version of University (or should that be Universe-ity)? Perhaps I'm still in primary school 🙂 Maybe life's version of university is about picking our specialist field which we go on to study and learn from. Some will be specialist manifesters, some will become expert seers (who can inspire people to reach for the kind of things in life they see happening for them). Some may be educators in opening the mind, when people are stuck in hopelessness, where as others could specialise in teaching perfect balance between constructive relaxation and activity. With that last one, it's quite interesting. Scientists are now beginning to fully realise how, by finding the perfect balance of relaxation and activity, the double helix begins to unwind (producing some truly stunning side effects and abilities). It all kind of sounds a little Harry Potterish, hey, with everyone learning their magical specialist craft.

Professor CMF, teaching the next generation of magical manifesters 🙂

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi therising,

I would love to spread the joy. I tried with a work colleague who is always negative/victim. Didn't really work so I guess I may have to manifest for her too.

Anyway my manifesting seems to have worked again. I have a phobia of the dentist. My little miss had a tooth growing however the wobbly tooth hadn't come out yet. It was suggested she may need to have the wobbly tooth removed. I had anxiety attacks everytime I think about booking it even though she wants to go. Well today the wobbly tooth fell out. She still needs to go, and wants to go, but at least that is 1 thing off my mind.

Cmf x

therising
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Valued Contributor

Hi CMF

Without a doubt, you're on a roll. Well and truly in the flow 🙂

CMF
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Blue Voices Member

Manifesting. I needed files for which have not hern ordered. I looked around the office & found a stack we can re use. I need to code them so try to find ones with same letters/numbers that I need for new ones. I picked 3 that were very close to what I needed.

Manifesting. The sister is going to the new guys house tonight & told her brother not to wait up, she might stay there. Wow, after 1 date & some long phone calls. She says he us great. As my partner said, she's jumping right in!

I manifested my job. Said many years ago I would be working there. When I sent a letter out of the blue nearly 4 years ago I put it out there that I'd be successful. My colleague is challenging, can be negative, nasty, the victim. I love my job/role but keep asking why i have to work with this person. Perhaps my job is to manifest for her to he happy, positive, genuinely nice not fake nice. Maybe that's why I've been given this role to work with her?

Cmf x

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

His sis also posted on social media she respects people who tell her the truth, no matter how hard it is.

A sign for me perhaps?

Moonstruck
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Hey CMF.....let me know when you begin taking clients...you seem to be grasping the concept of manifesting like a real pro.

How much do you charge? How about "mate's rates" for me?

Magic happens." Be realistic..expect a miracle"

therising
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Hi CMF

Sounds like your mind is seriously opening up to see things from a whole new perspective, a side effect of having reached a significant graduation point in life. I find there are times, when this happens, where I'm left asking myself 'How did I not see that before?'. Kind of feels like a bit of a reality shift at times. The only way I can think to make sense of it is based on what others have said...

When we're vibing low, all negative things will stand out or be outstanding. Our reality is one of negativity. When we're vibing high, all positive things will stand out or be outstanding. Our reality is one of positivity. In a low, there may be nothing but depressing questions, as we hang our head in contemplation. In a high, the solutions or signs are obvious. What naturally comes to mind, comes to mind easily. For example, we could be having a super challenging week while being on a high. Just before sinking into some mentally exhausting low, the words 'You need to look up' may come to mind. So, you look up. And there it is, the sign/bill board that states 'You need a holiday! Why let yourself get run down when there's adventure to be had'. Whether we take it as a sign and book a holiday remains a matter of choice. If we were vibing low, what naturally comes to mind ('You need to look up') can be easily dismissed or brushed off, due to us fully focusing on what's bringing us down. Nothing will shift our focus.

Significant challenges can definitely bring us down, until they begin to raise our consciousness and then, BAMM, up we go again. No wonder life feels like a roller coaster at times.

With that work colleague, I can't wait to hear how things go. Whether your ability leads her to find a difference in the job she's in or whether it leads her to contemplate the benefits of moving on, in search of greater fulfillment, will be interesting to see how the magic manifests. I wish she knew how blessed she is to have you in her life. You mention 'Maybe that's why I've been given this role to work with her?'. It's easy for me to believe your purpose in life is as a guide for others. In spiritual terms, you'd be known as a 'Lightworker' (someone who works on bringing things to light for others or bringing light into the life of others). Perhaps you've just discovered your calling 🙂

CMF
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Dear Moon,

No charge for you my friend & an appointment always available. You actually helped me on this path when you mentioned some books about manifesting.

Therising, woe, I've had a great week but something has drained me tonight & I'm anxious & low. My little miss & I went to my partner's for dinner. Us & sis. She didn't really do anything wrong but I just felt her presence draining me. I'm left empty. When it's the 3 of us the energy is not good. Could it be her dominance? It leaves me agitated, feeling like I don't belong, like a third wheel. I just can be around both of them together, the whole vibe shifts. It's THEIR house, like a married couple.

I don't know how to change that energy. I can't fight it.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
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Looked at the time 1:11.

Is it normal to have a great week of positivity & manifesting, then just crash like this? Told my partner he may need to sage the house. When I'm around him & his sis together I'm drained, can't breathe. Could I be absorbing this from him? Could he be feeling pressure to make the situation ok without upsetting sis? When my cards were read she said sis drains him, but I don't think so. I think she drains me, but only if my partner is there also. The 2 of them together drain my energy. It's like I don't belong in THEIR relationship. Maybe, even though she apparently loves me like a sister, she doesn't want me in her way with her bro? The cards said that too...sho loves me but be careful of her. This is probably why she is always hanging around, listening in, snooping. She doesn't want me to fully have him.

therising
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Hi CMF

Interesting observation when it comes to that 'off' or 'drained' feeling. I imagine there are possibly hundreds of different feelings to be felt in life. I once heard someone describe feelings or vibes as 'a body language'. Being such, it becomes a matter of learning the language in order to interpret it easily. Some feelings/vibes are easy to interpret, such as heartbreak, heartache, depressing, inspiration, pure joy or pure excitement and so on, because they're the intense ones that are easily and deeply felt. There are a stack that are so subtle that they can take a while to figure out. Then suddenly it hits and it's a matter of 'That's exactly what it is. Of course. Don't know why it took me so long to figure it out'.

Sounds like you could be onto something. Maybe the vibes you're picking up on are so subtle because they're not entirely yours. They're remote feelings. Could the suffocating feeling you're picking up on involve your partner feeling suffocated, as you suggest? Perhaps you could ask him. Could simply say something like 'I know this sounds a little strange but I can't help but wonder whether you're feeling a little suffocated or under pressure these days, due to work or something else perhaps?'. You could throw in 'It's just a feeling I get'. You might be surprised. He could end up saying 'That's incredible, that's exactly how I feel. How did you know?'.

Wondering if you've ever looked into 'Clairsentience' (aka clear feeling). Could research on this ability help you develop it more easily? I imagine you'd be able to find plenty of tips from experienced 'Clear feelers'. There are plenty of helpful tips on how to take care of your own energy while being around 'energy vampires', as they're known. Although I've never thought to do it myself, I've heard others mention before they go somewhere (where they know a person's going to suck the life out of them to some degree), they meditate on manifesting a protection type bubble of light or such around themself and even others who are in need of some help. They report such a meditation as being very effective.

I can relate to what you're saying when it comes to a particular vibe. You can be feeling on a high when it's a one on one vibe but when the dynamics or situation changes it can be a whole other feeling. I find you can always feel when someone's got something to prove. What they're trying to prove isn't always that clear.