Coming out

[Paul]

My mantra has always been. I'll come out to those people who are important and close to me, and no one else matters.

My belief is that this covers most situations for accidental coming out or people telling stories. "Important and close to me" in the past has included my employers.

What does everyone else think and do you have a disclosure rulebook?

By coming out I mean not just "I'm gay" it could be coming out as trans or intersex, it could be disclosing your status concerning an STI.

Paul

[Kazzl]

Hi MsPurple - you are one very together young lady. I am so impressed with your approach and it is a pleasure to read your posts.

I think what impresses me most is that you seem to know and understand yourself well. Some of us take a lifetime to get as far as you have in understanding and acceptance of who we are.

I know you have struggles and fears too hun, but trust yourself, be brave and you will get through.

Kaz