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Hi Lost_2018,
Sorry to read of your situation. Apart from the issues you have experienced with this lady, it does sound like you wanted to make a go of the relationship. It can be very difficult when one person walks out while the other has no understanding of why.
You mentioned that she already has stated she wants you in her life but not as a partner. Would you be able to be just friends with her, or would you always desire more of a relationship?
Do you have family and friends you can spend time with? Being alone with our negative thoughts can certainly make them worse. Do you have hobbies and interests you can try to include more in your life?
It is hard for anyone to know if your lady friend will be back or not. Maybe she doesn't even know the answer to that right now.
I guess maybe you need to ask yourself how long will you wait for her or is it time to say goodbye as well. Not an easy decision either way.
Regards from Dools
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