My BIL has done something stupid and been arrested, not yet sentenced. I desperately want to support my sister and her children through this, however I am aware of my limitations due to my history of depression and anxiety. I don't want to make things worse for our family by having a major depressive episode, I am also trying to work through my feelings and reactions to this. Any suggestions on how I can be supportive would be greatly appreciated.
It a learning curve. Legal matters with law get delayed very often.
I think self preservation is important. We all have to carry our own cross so to speak, so your sister should bare the load with you as a supporter. The roles are distinct, better not to go beyond you role as then you keep things in perspective
