Social interraction help
I have found most golf clubs are a clickey bunch unless you all ready have a friend in there your on the outer right away. Its almost impossible to make friends in there. If there is a local RSL club they are usually more friendly You can be a social member a lot of RSLs will have a golfing group a lawn boles group darts snooker heaps of social activities in there you may find some one to chat with become friends and your friend can go and collect the drinks you paying for yours and he his or your shout and his.
Thanks for your kind words of advice above. One of the issues with a small town is that the rsl meets at the local bowls club, and I am the insurance broker for most of the clubs/pubs around the town. So it also makes it hard to meet random people, strike up a conversation and have a drink with them. Between the people, music, and noise from the pokies sending the anxiety through the roof, The embarrassment of the hand tremors and drink spilling just tops it off. And that's if I have the depression under control and have the motivation to go out.