Says he loves me but not in love with me
Hi Broken-Hearted. Oh dear, I really feel for you. You've only been together 10 years. He sounds like he might have depression. When you have this debilitating condition, you question how or why anyone could love you. You don't love you, nobody else possibly could. I think he could need referral to a counsellor if he is suffering depression. Perhaps you could make an appointment with G.P to discuss possible treatment for hubby. Maybe drop G.P a letter letting him know what's happening. The G.P will only have your hubby's side of things, until he knows better, he can't really help. With depression, once it takes hold, it's a real 'black dog' of being in a deep dark hole where you can't see your way out. Do you know what has happened to him to make him feel this way. Does he have work issues he's not discussing with you? He needs to know he's not alone, aloneness, once 'black dog' creeps in is, as I said, as 'black hole' from where there seems to be no escape. Is he on medication, if he has only just started, it could take some time for it to start working. Once the meds 'kick in', he should start to feel better about himself. Try and get along to G.P and discuss with him what's happening from your side of situation. The G.P can't really tell you anything your hubby says because of Dr/patient confidentiality, but G.P can be more assistance once he knows the whole picture.
Best of luck. Remember BB is here too.