Pregnant with 2nd child and husband cheated
welcome to the forum. Sorry it has taken a while to reply to you, but sometimes this happens.
Well done on making your first post. congratulations on your pregnancy.
It is sad you are dealing with so many emotions when this is anemotionable time .
This time time needs to be about you and your baby. your health and the pregnancy are your priority.
I think your husband has to show you he can be trusted by being completely open and by giving you access to his internet accounts.
Are you looking after your health ? Do you have someone to talk to?
As this has been a shock it is helpful you are keeping things as calm as possible.
I hope you and your husband can be honest with each other about your feelings, and that he can listen and understand how he has hurt you and how your health is most important.
Look after yourself