Hi, welcome
It's an anxious time when this comes about, comments that make you insecure and lack of comments that make you feel happy. To add to that, a past history of cheating is not the recipe of a sound future.
What is the worst case scenario? Well it is of course separation but in another residence you'll have your baby and that will be your main focus. That baby will enlighten your life and depend fully on you. Sure the sadness of the situation of your baby not having a full time biological father to rely on isnt the best situation however, in this world we make mistakes, error of judgement and that is indeed human.
I would monitor his remarks and behaviour all the while knowing that if this deteoriates you have a plan B and that plan is simple- to provide shelter, love and protection for your baby and to allow with as little fanfare as possible, access to that child by his father as his/her dad will be important.
That's the worse case scenario and plan it if things erode away. The thing is- it will be his behaviour and decisions that form his future, monitor it and accept that there is little you can do to influence his attitude. In the next several weeks monitor him and ask questions, try not to be emotional and demanding but inquizative about his future of being a dad again and also his affection and care of you. If those things are not up to standard... your priority can change focus 100% to your baby's care.
I think I have taken to track of not sugar coating it but I do hope he responds positively.
I hope that helps.
TonyWK
