My kids don't respect me or listen to me anymore and I don't know what to do!
Hi trying hard,
when I read your post, it sounded a lot like my life. Except my eldest is 20.
A few years ago she had to "step up" and be the mum. Now she won't let me get that title back.
It also took me awhile to realise but she has the personality of her dad, lovely around others, not so nice at home. The way he treated me she does now.
Have you seeked professional advice? Maybe she has anger over separation/divorce???
I wish I could relax around my daughter without my heart beat beating so fast and feeling so sick.