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Misalignments

Dani12we_
Community Member

Hi, My bf and I broke up recently because of some misalignments in our relationship. These misalignments include him wanting to see me twice a week where I'm more inclined for 4 times a week. Also he does not want to travel where as I do. He is not willing to compromise so I ended the relationship however we both agreed its the right decision. We still chat a lot everyday. Not sure if this is good or bad. I am still very much in love with him

Anyone experienced something similar or have any thoughts on this? 

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geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hello Dani, I'm so sorry this must be so disappointing for you, especially as you love him, however if he only wants to see you a couple of times a week and not willing to even change his mind is unfortunate, because if you love someone you would do anything possible to be with your partner or at least compromise, and talking everyday may eventually provide this change, my only worry is that you are talking away from each other, rather than being with one another.

Love does exist by talking on the phone but it's not the same as enjoying the things you want to do when you're with eachother.

Geoff.

Life Member.

Dani12we_
Community Member

Thanks Geoff. I appreciate your reply!