depressed, dumped by the love of my life, insecurities
Hi guest, welcome
We only get one side of the situation so based on that this is my views.
Trust is the most important issue of any relationship. If you feel your partner is elusive and nit being totally up front, ufbyou think her conversations with her ex go way beyond chatting about their child then its reasonable fir you to feel insecure and its normal to expect your partner to care enough for you to reduce that interaction.
Thats my view. I've had a number of partners and chatting to their ex does happen, some even visited us but it was limited mainly talking about the children.
Its ok for ex's to remain friendly but not good friends in my view.
but instead of asking politely if she could go knock on the door of the person who could get us back in i let all that i was holding onto and hadnt talked about out and more i made threats to her about stupid immature stuff that i shouldnt of but at the time i was so angry and it came out, its not the first time ive done it either, after thinking today why i do, could be wrong but i would never hit a woman have never raised my hand to a woman ive always looked for away to hurt them mentally like they have me and i no i shouldnt do it so was wondering if anyone can help me out with ways to stop doing what i do..