Hi Fridays
Welcome to the forums. Thank you for sharing this post, you sound like a very supportive partner. Bipolar disorder is complex and can be quite distressing for those around them/caring for them. The first step in supporting those with bipolar disorder is to understand their diagnosis as well as supporting them to seek help. Black dog institute has some fantastic information on their website about Bipolar Disorder as well as some resources that your partner can use to find help.
Understanding bipolar disorder: https://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/resources-support/bipolar-disorder/
Help and support: https://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/resources-support/bipolar-disorder/help-support/
That being said, it is ultimately down to your partner to seek help and manage his symptoms. The best way to encourage this would be to have a discussion about how his behaviour or symptoms are affecting you and why you think it would be best for him to seek further support. You could help him by attending a doctor appointment with him or navigating resources online with him. Ultimately the onus is on him however and you shouldn't blame yourself if you feel the relationship is unhealthy due to his behaviour.
Hope this helps. Keep us updated.
Bob
