Am I over sensitive or do I have a problem.
Thanks for your post.
Usually when I see a post where a person is married I leave it so that other people who are married and therefore have more experience reply; but I was really concerned when I saw your post.
This behaviour from your husband does not seem okay. I do not think it's appropriate that you should need to 'get over' the fact your husband is being verbally abusive, aggressive or making you feel unsafe.
This is not things that happen in healthy relationships. What you've actually described is behaviour of domestic violence. Domestic violence isn't always physical but can be verbal or emotional. You do not need nor deserve to feel unsafe in your relationship.
I really want to encourage you to have a look at this site - https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/understand-domestic-violence/types-of-abuse/