Affair

[unkown87]

When should you say enough is enough in an affair? seeing him for about 2yrs, we both are married and are not happy in our current marriages. WE both have fallen in love and can see a future together. The issues are we both are not ready to leave our marriages yet, he cant give me sex but can give me anything else, he shuts down when things get to overwhelming for him. I also feel he takes what we have for granted,  He says if we were together things would be so much better between us but untill that comes i feel its more hard then good. Any advise.

[Sophie_M]

Hi unknown87,  It sounds like it’s had some very serious impacts on your life. We’re glad you could share this here, as our lovely community will have advice for you.  It sounds like you could do with talking things through, so please don’t hesitate to give the lovely Beyond Blue counsellors a call on 1300 22 4636 or speak to them on webchat here. You could also speak to Relationships Australia on 1300 364 277.  Thanks again for sharing here. We’re sure you’ll hear from some other community members once they spot your thread. We appreciate your openness in sharing to the forums.   Kind regards,   Sophie M