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Introduction - Hello Everyone

Guest_498
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Hi all,

I'm new to this forum. I'd like to introduce myself. I'm 40 years of age, female. My interests include music (any genre), reading a great novel, watching comedy, Restuaranting, and learning new things. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Depression feels very lonely for me. I'd like to reach out for some support. Thank you.

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So, just got back from dinner...
He loved loved the food. I had a ball. Food & good company. Hes such a gentleman!!! OMG.. Lol. ❤❤🔥🔥

Sleepy, if you go to Ebay, then type in 'silver french mantle clock' it should give you the listed clock I had in mind for you. The clocks are in the french hampton style, yes.
Its super elegant.
Blubes x

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

hey blubs so great that he enjoyed the place and that you had a fun time, that's awesome.
He's definitely got the gift of the gab - easy to talk to. You seem to challenge each other and have that "click"

a good night with amazing food 🙂 x happy for u

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

hey blubs i think i found the clock! there were too vary similar, one was more square and sharp all around the other had a base which was a bit wider than the clock itself

They are a great style. I went for one of them at the time and pressed click. I guess probably the square one is more "clean lines" - they are both cute. will look fancy!!! hope ur still laughing after your fun night out

ecomama
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

LOVE THOSE CLOCKS! They're SO beautiful. Lovely to take advantage of a Mantlepiece Sleepy!
Having one of those is very special in itself.

Oh that's SO AWESOME you had a great night out Blubes!
Fan-fairy-tastic lol.

I updated about Alexa and her date on my thread.
OMG. Just quite unbelievable lol.
Huge success.

Hey mocha girl, so sorry to hear you've been struggling sweetheart.
BIG hugs bbg.

Keep opening up to us and your psych.

Lots of love to you all
EM

Guest_1643
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

yay em

will check on the thread for the goodnews

hope ur good Blubs x

Hey Mocha,

I hope you're feeling a bit better today. Sorry to hear that you're feeling down about your weight and eating disorder. Other than psychologist, do you do any other form of therapy such as self-talk? Self-talk is underrated in the world of psychotherapy, but some ppl find it useful, like myself. I try to self-talk myself for motivation to do things. Do you exercise, Mocha?

Blubes

Sleepy, the clock you found sounds like the one I say on Ebay - so when you type in 'silver french mantle clock', there's an xl one ('xl elegant silver shelf clock/mantle/bedside/desk/Hamptons French provincial') for $109.00...sounds the same. Good on you with your find. Let me know when it arrives. Exciting. lol.

I'm good, thanks. Nothing much has changed to my days .. Still the same. Exercise, music, exercise, errands, etc. lol. Self-care, self-care.

Yeah, honestly was sooo good to get out and 'live' again!! One of the things I LOVE to do is go restauranting with mates and as we've been in lockdown for virtually 9 months (with one or two months of freedom), last night was so much fun. My flatmate is a very sweet young man. He made me laugh a lot. You said: "He's definitely got the gift of the gab" - No, he hasn't... not really (I'm sure he would be in Italian) but he's easy to talk to and yes, we click very well. We clicked the instant we met. I felt comfortable with him and still do. Apart from his good looks, in all seriousness, he's got a lot of endearing qualities. He's caring. Last night he fussed over me. Before we left the house, "have you got your mask with you"? Check, yes. In the carpark before going in "put your mask on". Me: But I won't look cute. Him: you can look cute in the restaurant .. take it seriously, woman, put your mask on". The damn mask lol. It was good to have a night out.

I hope you're well bbg.

Hi blueberry as I’ve said I’m not officially diagnosed with anything yet so no and I was exercising but now even 10 minutes sends my mind to a very dark place.

Exercise does the opposite for me. I exercise much much more when I'm stressed or down and it makes me feel somewhat better at that particular moment, I guess coz I know it's good for my health. It also distracts me from my own thoughts. How are feeling today?