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Complex PTSD - What is it and how do we cope?
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'Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD; also known as complex trauma disorder) is a psychological disorder thought to occur as a result of repetitive, prolonged trauma involving sustained abuse or abandonment by a caregiver or other interpersonal relationships with an uneven power dynamic.' Wikipedia description..
I think this pretty much sums it up yeah?
I wish I could underline; '..relationships with an uneven power dynamic'. In my own case, C-PTSD was triggered by bullying in my workplace from 2008 until 2014. I developed symptoms such as Anxiety/Panic that grew in severity until a tragic breakdown in 2014. I was forced to medically retire.
Although my history of multiple trauma's and childhood abuse caused specific responses in me from an early age, I thought I was normal and everyone was the same. In fact, a lot of people in my inner circle were.
Decades later, I find out those friends/family members/acquaintances had gone thru their own traumatic situations. So why wouldn't I feel normal around them?
Today, as opposed to the 70's/80's (my adolescence/young adulthood) where abuse wasn't discussed, people have resources to out their pain and confusion in spaces like BB forum or with psychologists, social workers, medico's, psychiatrists and even friends/family.
Treatment has become the 'norm' instead of going it alone which is what many of us here had to do until society caught up with this 'pandemic' (IMO) of psychological disorders.
So, why create a thread dedicated to C-PTSD? Well, stigma and misconception around it's still rife in our society, and people suffering with this horrible disorder and not realising it is a constant.
Your views are absolutely welcome! We really do need to talk about it as consequences of C-PTSD and the benefits of therapy are worthy and an important part of recovery.
Newcomers and current members alike are encouraged to post; old, young, male or female.
Let's pick each other's brain and see where it leads...
Kind thoughts;
Sez
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Thanks Amanda,
So true you are.... I feel so so new to all this because I AM new, I’m sure I’ll burn out the spark soon and then simmer away. It’s like a new found wonderment.
Its comforting to know I’m not completely on the road to ‘crazy’. I guess the worry I have is the two polar ends of the equation, that I will give up and give in, or I will enter psychosis (like my mother did). She was diagnosed with bipolar, but I’m not sure it was that now... she experienced so much trauma in her life too.... only thing is she’s late 60 now and hasn’t got much left.... and now she’s getting dementia. I’m worried I’ll end up like that if I lose that spark to learn.
Anyway... it is nice to hear from you Amanda, I’m getting a book by van der kolt which should hopefully fill me with many stories... I’d love to hear how people can move on after their triggers and lead successful lives, that’s what I want to do....
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Hi Sez
Yep. Diagnosed C-PTSD and been struggling to find somewhere where people understand. Thank you.
If reply = tag then I can follow on properly later.
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Hello LostLass and welcome!
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Hi there, how do you support a close family member with complex PTSD - I am trying to understand more about PTSD and my gorgeous sister is really struggling. I thought she was OK and but I have naive and didn't realise that triggers happen out of the blue showing that I don't fully understand the nature of PTSD.
Can I ask please, and this is asked with love and trying to understand, what do you need from your family members?
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Hi JumpingGenes ☺ welcome to bb.
I'm C-PTSD but haven't yet researched enough into it.
You sound like a very loving caring sibling. w
Wanting to understand I feel is probably one of the best things a loved one can offer. I guess also which I imagine you'd do is listening too and maybe ask questions. Some people can talk at the time some not but they might be able to reply later. They may be able to tell you what would help.
I'm not sure if this has been much help but again awesome you wanting to understand.
Best to everyone 🕊
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I don't have a diagnosis of C-PTSD but I am learning about it, and everything I have read so far resonates deeply and gives me hope and a framework for recovery - so even if I don't *have* it... I'm finding all the literature and strategies for it immensely helpful.
Childhood trauma has gradually come up in my therapy sessions (I only started therapy, a few months ago), and I have gradually realised it has had a much greater impact than I ever realised, and I've started being triggered by things much more noticeably - and wondering if my "irrationally emotional" responses to things in the past have actually been emotional flashbacks.
Learning to prioritize myself and treat myself with compassion seems like something I need to do, and also like something that will be incredibly hard. I am not used to doing those things, at all.
Anyway. I hope it was okay to chime in here.
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Hi WokingOnIt's
When I was diagnosed with PTSD from childhood trauma and other life events it really helped me to understand why I have felt for most of my 54 years.
thanks for sharing
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Hi everyone
Thank you WorkingOnIt and BOC for your posts. You are most welcome here.
I'm a bit like both of you - it wasn't until very late in life that I realised the impact my childhood had on my life. The triggers I have and how I used to feel so rejected, unloved and uncared for. It's amazing how the journey of recovery and healing can help one to get to a better place in one's life. Even when you're in your 60s.
So thanks once again for joining this discussion. If there is anything you want to ask, feel free.
Is there anyone else out there who has something they'd like to say about C PTSD and how you cope?
Kind regards
PamelaR
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Hi y'all
I often wonder how many people care or understand the importance of good parenting. Unfortunately I see far to often parents treating their children appallingly which obviously upsets me as I know the impact that can have on the child. I have even seen a grandmother kick a toddler and I had to say something. I even reported this to the police who did take me seriously but as there were no other reports about that family they could not proceed.
I think there should be a greater focus in the community on parenting and they influence it can have on children.
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Hi WorkingOnIt Boc64 PAMMY 🤗 and everyone ☺
Welcome WorkingOnIt and Boc64. Thanks both and everyone for your input.
Absolutely WokingOnIt this is what here's about ☺ the more we talk the more understanding. It really does help knowing even as you said if you don't have it often in threads we can gain coping skills for managing the Big D (depression)
Agree totally Boc I'm not a Mum but have for a long time said similar about parenting.
If you're interested sometime that'd be a very helpful thread. No pressure only if you want.
I'm starting to learn some coping methods so Pammy I'll beee backkkk 💪
Thanks again everyone. Sez chooky lovey 😀 if you're 👀 in here at times sending love and often thoughts. Miss you. Truth. Hope lifes being kind and you're having success and above all happy
WorkingOnIt, fantastic name 👍
People there really is hope, don't give up please. We're learning more and more especially at amazing places like bb here with absolute Gold people sharing their pain experiences and learnings.
Laters ☺🕊 peace is within our grasp