UPDATED: I just feel alone and lost in a new world I don't like

[Zetta]

Hi everyone, I just want to introduce myself. I went to the Dr today and he prescribed me my medication. I'll be starting the journey to a more positive outlook soon. I just feel soo lost and confused. My husband and I have had a pretty hard week this week as I told him something that changed everything for us. A secret I held for a long time. And he's not talking to me much. I just feel alone and lost in a new world I don't like. It's just all soo confusing. 

[Graceeeeee]

Hey dear Zetta!

Good news about the soccer carnival! Tell us if you are ever feeling down, it can be exhausting with lots of things going on, you can let yourself relax sometimes, or feel sad, whatever it is that you need to get yourself back on track 🙂 We have this lovely cafe in the Community Board section, you can pop by at anytime and have a nice chat with anyone if you want. Have a very good night and happy Easter weekend to you too Zetta! You are so sweet 🙂

With Love,

Grace xx

[blondguy]

Hey Zetta

I just thought I would wish you and your family all the very best for Easter 🙂

I hope your chronic pain gives you a break so you can have some peace

Paul

[Zetta]

Thank you Grace,

I will definitely tell you guys when I'm down or sad.

I'm just trying to focus on the things I can control at the moment like being as prepared as I can be for my surgery. Next week I have a full week of prep cooking for the weeks following my operation and just making sure I have help organised and a roster for when who is helping with what and what meals are being prepared and what household chores needs to be done. Just so that I can concentrate on resting and healing. This might sound silly to some people but I feel it's the best way to cope at the moment. I can't control much else so I'm focussing on what I can control and have control over. And by doing this I'm less stressed about my operation.

I will pop over to the cafe when I have a spare minute! Thank you for the well wishes! I just want to wish you a very Happy Easter and a relaxing weekend!!

Cheers,

Zetta

[Zetta]

Hi Paul!

Thanks for the well wishes!! I would like to wish you and all your family a happy easter and a relaxing weekend!!

Happy Easter!!

Zetta

[Lost_Girl]

Countdown to camping! Yay!

Thinking of you xx

[Graceeeeee]

Hey dear Zetta!

It's nice to hear you are preparing everything you can, I hope the surgery goes well for you, you are very brave 🙂 And it does feel very nice when you've got everything under control doesn't it! So good luck with making the roster and cookings and everything else, sounds like you are very busy.

Thank you for the lovely wishes Zetta! I hope you can get some rest while being so busy 🙂 Big hugs to you XX Sleep well tonight!

With Love,

Grace x

[Zetta]

Hey Grace, 

Thanks soo much!! I'll take a break during the week to take the kids to the free holiday activities at our local mall just to relax and have fun with them! Since I have decided not to stress about surgery i'm not as anxious any more! A good friend of mine gave me the advice to be as prepared for the Unknown as possible and work on the things you can change instead of worrying about the things you can't change!! 

That was a light bulb moment for me!! Our weekend so far is great and relaxing!! There's no one around and we're spending quality family time together!! I haven't felt this relaxed in months!! It's just wonderful what nature can do for you!! 

Happy Easter!!

Zetta

[Lost_Girl]

Hi lovely,

I saw on the thankful feed that you have a beautiful campsite. I am so happy for you. Wishing you a beautiful weekend with lots of hugs from your family xx

[Zetta]

Hi there everyone!!

Just thought I'll post up here that I have been doing great the last few weeks!!

Unfortunetly I received some bad news last night. My mothers brother passed away yesterday. I'm feeling really down at the moment. Didn't sleep well last night and I'm very tired today it's hard to focus with the kids schooling today. I'm trying to hold it together but it hard.

[Starwolf]

Hi Zetta,

Good to read from you but I wish it could be in different circumstances. Coping with grief for the loss of a loved one is heartbreaking. I hope you can give yourself time to go through this process and that you will find support within your family to do so. My heart goes out to you.

I am relieved to know that you have been doing well. So I guess your physical pain level has eased...a welcome break. Sometimes, we have to be grateful for small mercies.

Thinking of you at this difficult time.