Gday simon.
l see your time frame , hate that description butt in all this is right in your first post so l'm sorry l asked again before , l'm pretty dyslexic and often can't see lines in posts but anyway.
hate to drag it up in a way but eh , your spending time with the new lady so you should be right. But it reminds me so much of me and my ex gf, after 19yrs with ex and marriage also , and a daughter too.
gf and l had this mind blowing insanely intense thing , love, passoon, the works, but she had problems too. and there was no communication possible with them either , they just seemed to dig a bigger nastier ditch whenever l tried.
l really couldn't see a way of staying together, we were together 19mths , 70% long distance, countries. l know like you had , l expect to find out some time too she's seeing someone else , the thought like you makes me sick to the stomach yet here you are , must be what , 12mths now , and your seeing your new lady.
Gives me hope and l appreciate the you telling your story mate . Sure it's been encouraging to a lot of other passers by too.
God knows we deserve some good in life after a divorce and then that stuff with the new thing and l hope things go well for you and the new lady if not the next one, the future , and you and your daughter.
All the best eh, nice job man. good for you.
