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i need help please

Jackson1994
Community Member

is there anybody there

i need some help i cant cope with this anymore please help

- jackson

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CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Yeah, he might take a step back. At my local one the previous owner used to come in late or leave early or take days off etc. He had kids too so that kept him bust as well. Is he young/old

Jackson1994
Community Member
yeah pretty young only like 30, has a toddler so i can see where this might be heading... maybe, i guess i'll have to wait and see. i really like it there, they are a like a family to me, when my brother passed away they were so accommodating and still are, i've worked with nice people in other jobs, but this is real good

Jackson1994
Community Member
and you have bad days, things go wrong, you stuff up, but as long as you own it and look at what you can do to improve then its cool

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

I'm a big believer of owning your mistakes, let's face it, we all make them. He's pretty young to own a cafe with so many staff and have a kid already. He's done well.

Been for a surf lately? Have you checked out the social zone on the forums? There are some fun games. I play 'follow that word"

Jackson1994
Community Member

nah i havent been out surfing in a while, which is frustrating and disappointing, i wish i lived closer to the beach

and yeah i've seen that section just havent really posted yet

Hey Jackson

Im sorry that you had a rough patch with the anxiety.

The roller coaster ride that you were on is bad news. I remember those crap times so clearly.

I wasted 13 years of my life having exactly the same awful periods of panic and being overwhelmed without seriously having a good 'vent' to a doc/counselor (I tried natural remedies and just for me they didnt work)

Please forgive me if we have spoken about this before....can I ask you if you have managed to see your doc regularly so you can have some more clarity and peace in your life?

Either way its great to have you as part of the Beyond Blue Family Jackson 🙂

I admire your strength and ability to speak whats on your mind. That takes serious guts and good on you

my best always for you

Paul

Thanks Paul 🙂

and nah it haven't, i've only seen my gp once

No worries Jackson and thanks for speaking from the heart too!

The GP's have much better training nowadays on anxiety/panic than they used too when I first started getting my mega panic attacks/feeling overwhelmed when I was 23. I really felt like crap Jackson

I guess I just meant that you have everything to gain and nothing to lose by having a good vent to a doc.

It takes more guts to post here than it does to see a doc.

Anyhow...I think you are an amazing strong person 🙂

Paul

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
I made an appt today to see mine, going in a few weeks. My anxiety comes and goes. Last year I saw a dr at our clinic and she is great but I didn't really click with her so I've booked with a different one this time, someone I saw a few years ago. It's just for a routine check up but I want to tell her about the anxiety coming and going.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Jackson,

Just popping in to wish you a good day. Are you playing footy? Great day for it.

Cmf