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i need help please
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is there anybody there
i need some help i cant cope with this anymore please help
- jackson
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Is it 'the ' day? The anniversary? So sorry to hear you re struggling.
How's the work from home going? Have you recruited W yet?
It's tough not being able to see loved ones. Are you all able to FaceTime/video call at all.
Sending you hugs.
Cmf x
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Yeah, the anniversary.
This week is always tough, leading up to it always is, it was definitely was amplified by all the talk of ICU wards, ventilators and footage everywhere of people in hospital.Sent shivers down my spine and pictures from the memory bank in my head came back. H is super stressed over it so she’s always looking for more information and talking about it, I don’t want to shut her down because that’s her way of coping, but I’ve had to have a few polite that’s enough chats.
On a lighter note, this week we celebrated that W turned 8 months!
I’m working from home yes I have recruited W, I think I’ve had no choice he seems to want to work with me all day, my team keep asking for me to bring him onto our Skype meetings to say hi. But yes, he’s definitely interested in what I’m doing all day.
He started to try and pull himself up to our couch and almost got it today I couldn’t believe it, this kid is on the move, well and truly wants to get moving.
We are all home, all day, but still getting out for our walks.
I don’t know if it’s irresponsible or not, but H and I have talked about seeing my parents if every single one of us has stayed at home for an entire 2 weeks beforehand, both my parents are working from home (and the kids are at home, send them help) and we are all home, but that will be a while yet now isn’t a good time but maybe once we can be sure none of us have been out and about working etc. But we don’t want to put the health of any of our family members or anyone else at risk. It’s a tough one but by the sounds it one we are allowed to do using our own judgement. Even if we were to visit we’d only go to the house and straight home, no stopping
The weekend was very busy in our town, holiday makers unfortunately flocked here, we live in a town where something like 80% of residents are elderly, so anyone coming in from somewhere like Melbourne going to our shops could be very bad. We tried to explain this to people who said they had a right to holiday, well that’s incorrect and it’s not about being on holiday it’s about respecting the needs of the community.
Call it awful, but if our town had remained untouched but every other town around us burnt down in the fires, would you come here with a match, because you “have a right to?” I wouldn’t think so, but that’s essentially what you are doing... They have all been sent on their way now and the supermarket has said locals only and has been out delivering. Anyway.That was a lot.
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You sound better, that's good. A right to holiday....hmmm...actually no. They don't have that right at the moment. No flight as, no travel, nothing. If the town is elderly, even worse.
8 months, the fun is on it's way lol. How beautiful thst he wants to be part of your work. Are you still filling the new role?
Take care
Cmf x
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I haven’t been sleeping very well, it’s something I want to bring up with the doctor but not at the moment, maybe when all this stuff settles down.
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Guess where we ended up today!? The last place anyone wants to be right now, yep the good old hospital...
Given the current circumstances we are very grateful for their quick help and good care. We are all good now, W gave us all a fright, as he likes to do sometimes. We are just about regulars there now... between my injuries and other health issues, H’s baby appointments and W’s health, we are surely nearly on a first name basis with the reception...
Anyway, we are all home and safe now,
As I said yesterday this kid is keen to move around, a little too keen
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Glad to hear W is ok. It certainly has turned wintery.
Funny, when I saw how windy it is I thought of you this morning not being able to have your walks along the beach. I realised that we h ave been "talking on these forums for a while now and I've followed your journey from the start
I have to tell you that YOU are an inspiration to me. All you've overcome all you've achieved. I am so proud of you as you should be of yourself. I'm so happy to 'see you with a beautiful family. You did good !
Cmf x
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Thanks CMF, I hope you are coping ok.
For us it is ok being indoors, we love getting out and about but staying indoors especially during this weather it is ok, we can cope the three of us, we’ve got each other. As I said before W is getting a little stir crazy though.
It’s hard not seeing family though, been FaceTiming the family every day though, Mum is pretty down about not seeing will, especially because he’s grown so much and is moving around so much more even in the last month. Hence the accident. Got a little ahead of himself, we have an open kitchen and lounge area, I was standing at the bench, tidying up, he was sitting in the lounge area with his steering wheel toy which he is so attached to it could probably count as his third arm, we even have to have it on the table while he’s eating in his high chair or he cries...anyway, all of a sudden that toy isn’t good enough he decides to go for the tv cabinet, tries to stand up slips and hits his head on the corner.
The first job we did when we got home was put the tv on the wall.
Yes can you beleive it’s been nearly 3 years since I first came on here completely distressed and not sure what do about my dad, my work... 3 years later, thriving as opposed surviving...
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