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i need help please

Jackson1994
Community Member

is there anybody there

i need some help i cant cope with this anymore please help

- jackson

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Jackson1994
Community Member
It started in 2015 when my brother died

Thank you for all your help and support Kaz I like it here

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hey Jackson, do you feel like talking on one thread, would this be easier for you?

The loss of your dear brother has affected you so much and you have been dealing with this all alone by the sound of things. I'm glad you have reached out and we will do all we can to help you through.

Did you receive help or counseling at the time? Does your mum know how to has been affecting you. We can talk on your other thread if that is easier.

Jackson1994
Community Member
yeah ok lets talk on the other one

hi Jackson, after replying to your other post we are beginning to realise what sort of pain you are in, I'm so sorry, and I also agree it would be a good idea to ask your mum to go with you to the doctor's.
They may prescribe medication for you, so that's something you should be guilded by what your doctor says and they may also do the same for your mum, as I said in your other post I'm not sure whether or not your mum is holding back her emotions and making out that she is OK.
I'd let you read your other post. Geoff.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

HI Jackson,

We will keep talking/supporting you on this thread as the other 2 have been closed off. Don't stress about it, it happens sometimes if you have more than one thread going at the same time.

Anytime you want to talk about you brother or anything else you can do it from here. I like the memory you shared about the storm on the beach. Typical Melbourne hey, one minute you're walking on the beach next minute running for cover lol. I remember on warm day deciding to take my little to the beach it was about a 1/2 drive, the weather was changing as we drove and by the time we got to the sand the wind was blowing like anything. Had we been an hour earlier, it would have been nice.

What else did you get up to?

Hope you are having a better day.

cmf

Hey Jackson

really good to hear that you are a doing a bit better and that you like being here too 🙂

hope you have a good day

Paul

Jackson1994
Community Member

Yeah CMF we have a holiday house in Queenscliff, such a beautiful part of the world that's when we got stuck on the beach, so funny at the time but funny to look back on.

We used to go skating together. I remember when we were younger I always made him trying out the dangerous things before I did, like jumping from the tree on the trampoline lol

I love my step family but I also miss our little family of three, my mum, my brother and I, it was so different back then

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Queenscliff, yes it is a beautiful part of the world. When i was a kid our neighbours had a beach house at Wye River and we used to go there all the time. Beautiful scenic drive but gee that Great Ocean Rd used to make me car sick. I do love it out that way.

So your brother was your guinea pig haha, that's pretty funny, i can just imagine the mischief you got up to.

You will always treasure your little family of 3 but i guess in life there will always be changes and we need to adapt as best we can. Those memories are precious, no one can take them from you. Have you thought of starting a journal or diary of you memories? You can add photos if you have them. Then you can always look back on it whenever you feel like it. It would be a beautiful keepsake.

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
There is a thread called 'store your happy memories here'. If you want you are always welcome to use it or can you just post them here. Whatever you are more comfortable with.