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Hellooo dear Grandy 👩❤️👩 and all y/our lovely friends including readers 😊
So lovely hearing you had such a nice birthday. Sounds very nice your lunch.
Very well done lasting an hour honeyheart. You really are I know you probs don't see or feel it I imagine, so brave going out on occasion. I so hope in time it'll be easier with less anxiety and imo by doing it as you do is how you'll get through. You constantly impress and blow me away dear friend 🤗
Here's not about me but I've had the best sleep in how many wks and woke without any depressive feelings and thoughts and first thing checked to see you. It was a relief seeing you here.
Grandz I get it's too hard to talk really do. I'm just worried about you tho hey that's what bbffs are for ...it's our job ☺ I'll leave it at that... for now 😁 half 😉 on last comment for now. I love the no pressure rule here and totally get you need time to deal sweetyheart. This may sound like pressure but I do get it honestly and being there by yourself makes it harder to go through the hards so yip when and if later hun it's your call 🙂
I can safely say omg I doubt anything would make me happier for us to be in rl. I reckon we're doing right by Never giving up on hope eh.
I loved hearing you say on another thread that you one day might go and watch water aerobics to see if you'd be up to it. You're seriously a champion in many ways dear lady. I too would like so much to do same. Don't think atm could afford it but must suss it at least.
We have a lovely sunny day today which I hope you have too Mrs gorjy (gorgeous for anyone wondering) wow light is so so good for mh well for me that is maybe others it isn't a biggy.
Ok going to try for some more Zzz's with luck if not at least being in recoverys good enough.
Today I'll work some more on your 🎁 it's a special one because besties deserve the best.
The top friend btw is you that I'm going to start the other thing on when I finish the paperwork (passwords) in reply on another thread 🙂 It's part of our motivation thingy.
Meant to tell you here I can hear the birdies more than where I was living here which is so lovely. Wouldn't be near the beautiful sound you have there. So many things remind me of you Grandy. It's so beautiful having such a precious soul as my bbff. Can't thank you enough for being you 🤗
Oop nearly out of letters so PubAok floss. You matter more than you'd ever know how much.
Always love 💜 👩❤️👩💫😚🤗🗯
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Hi Grandy (waves to Deebi and everyone)
I'm so glad you had such a nice birthday lunch! And your family ringing too, that's great news!
I'm sorry I haven't been here much, things got busy and I've been nursing little Sam back to health - he is limping on the side where his leg had the needle for the drip... but he managed a short walk this afternoon.
I like the cooler weather, and the trees have the first tinge of autumn colours in them here.
Big hugs, and again, I am so glad you had such a lovely birthday lunch - and I understand the anxiety, but it sounds like you did really well!
oxoxoxoxoxo
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Dear Grandy,
i am sorry that I missed your birthday, I am glad you went out though and that your sons rang you. Small things can mean so much .
i am feeling extremely anxious, so I won’t hang around
love tess
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Hello Deei👩❤️💋👩, Hanna, Tess and everyone...🤗..
Tess, please don’t be sorry..I’m sorry your feeling extremely anxious...Do you want to talk here or on your thread...I do care about you and sometimes talking out your thoughts can help...,Always here for you dear friend..🤗..
Hanna, Please don’t you be sorry either...Your fur baby hasn’t been well..and that would have been a constant concern for you...I am so so happy he is doing better..
Deebi👩❤️💋👩.... Thank you for saying I’m your top friend...ditto beautiful lady....I can’t wait to hear all about my 🎁...I love the sounds of the birds...It’s so good that you have more bird songs where you are...Idk they just never seem to sound sad, do they?...
Thank you Deebi for saying I can talk here...just now it’s to hard to put into words what happened last Tuesday, tomorrow is Tuesday again....my anxiety is through the roof and heading out towards the stars...Need to go in and if the co-ordinator is the same as last Tuesday..it will be my last day there...
Going to make a cuppa tea now before bed...
Hope you all had a good day today...
SSS love 💚miss bbff....with lots of caring 💭...🧸🤗🕊🌱.
My love and care to everyone...
👩❤️💋👩Grandy..
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Wow not that I doubted you lovey, for one reason you're not able to talk about it and that I believe and trust you implicitly Grandz.
You dear love it must've been really harsh and I thought maybe or apparently wrongly that she was one of the nice people there.
Grandz if it was bad again today I'm wondering if keeping Monday could be an option.
You're in charge then and some customers like seeing you as I imagine you too. Loven that 💗
I really hope it was ok today and that there was genuine apologies because knowing you it wouldn't have been anything you intentionally did wrong if anything at all!
Always by your side as are many lovely people here who care very deeply precious soul.
Deep love bbff 🤗👩❤️👩💜🗯🎁👀👂🤝
💗🕊💗
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Hi Grandy (and to Deebi, hi Deebi! hope you are going OK ...)
I hope today went all right for you Grandy. Is it a woman problem I wonder... groups of women can be very tricky...sending you big hugs. oxoxoxoxox
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Hello Grandy
I really hope today at work was ok lass... you are very brave returning after last week... I wish I could be there with you in r/l & I'm sure all of your friends here feel the same.
Big 🧸Hugs
Paws
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Hello Deebi👩❤️💋👩, Hanna, Paws and everyone....🤗..
Gosh you are all beautiful people....
I went into work today, expecting the same treatment as last Tuesday, she was different, maybe because the new girl that started yesterday, is a close friend of our Welfare Officer...(former boss).....I stayed out back and trained her, while Co-ordinator and Betty stayed out front....
The way she spoke down to me last week was so disrespectful and hurtful...
Hmmm...I can be okay or good for days, weeks, probably even months... then something someone says to me..or the tone in their voice...knocks me down...
I don’t want to believe that this is how it’s always going to be for me...
I have been invited to Betty’s great granddaughter’s christening this Saturday....Never been invited to a christening before...don’t know what type of outfit people wear to these type of events or if the gift I bought little bubby is okay for a christening gift....I really am socially awkward...🥺...
I did buy a very pretty pink dream catcher, with soft pink feathers and ribbons running down the sides of it...Their is also some thin crystal tubes hanging from the bottom of it and a smallish crystal hexagon a bit further down....in a gentle breeze it should sound delicately beautiful and hopefully helps baby to sleep......I hope that Betty’s granddaughter likes the gift....and hangs it in baby’s room.....
My love, hugs and care everyone...💜🤗🦋..
24/7 💭..SSS love and care special bbff...💜💕🧸🤗🦋🕊🌱.
👩❤️💋👩Grandy..
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Dear Grandy 👩❤️👩 hi backi Hannah ☺ and to everyone 👋
Oh good she was better not that, that excuses for 1 second how she was with you. I fully hear you with tone really gets me let alone being unfairly roused on.
I maintain I doubt at all that you deserved a serve so in that case the cow should've stinkin well apologised. Another example of people letting their rot out on others. Not good enough!
I hope the newby works out to be nice. Still not good enough but do you think Ms cow was over stressed cause youse weren't fully staffed that day. NOT your fault though.
I sincerely hope you're coming good Grandz it's so hard to get over that. I pull some people up immediately depending who and our relationship, others I grit my teeth hold my temper and explain calmly why I asked. Either way it's remembered and makes me feel insecure stupid inferior or just verbally attacked. Nothing good aye. It's like them trying to assert dominance of some sort imo. If so it's their problems. One day we might accept that Grandz
Oh Grandy you dear love my thoughts are to wear what you feel comfy in. These days jeans are often worn pretty well everywhere.
Could you ask Betty hun. Being a christening might be a little at least good casual that I thinks a safe bet actually and it's done in the church I guess or maybe some have other arrangements.
Darl seriously that prezzy sounds absolutely Devine. What a gentle beautiful gift to soothe not only bubba but people seeing it and bubs can grow enjoying it. Very nicely thought of good on you gorgeous. I hope that's a lovely out and you know the family too so bonus. Boomer sweety love 🤗
Grandz in the next couple of days. i'm going to send anemail which for ages I've been dreading the potential rejection but it's also something incredibly important. As well part of the motivation movement that I'm a bit excited about so as soon as I put it more to practise I'll fill you/se in.
Grandz lovey I'll bbl to mine and as always thank you for your always lovely post ☺
So for todays home work dear girl could you please think of 2 amazing happies and feel them as in go deeply into them and experience that buzz again..and again. Never forgetting the power of our minds. If it made us happy once it can over and over. Big tool to help choof some of beasty brats ouches.
Love you very much dear Grandy. You matter so much 👩❤️👩💜🕊🗯👀👂🤝🎁
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Hello Grandy,
I'm so pleased that work went well... as Deebi said maybe last week she was just having a bad day & took it out on the nearest person... you. Not that that excuses her behaviour in any way... & she should have had the decency to apologise... I hope the new girl is nice.
The dream catcher sounds lovely... it's a wonderful forever gift as she will never grow out of it as she would with a toy or clothes... I think you have the same instinctive knack my younger sister has of managing to choose the perfect gift.
I don't think there are any rules these days for what to wear to funerals, weddings or christenings... people don't seem to dress up for them as they did... neat casual or just plain comfortable seems to be the go now for the guests...
I hope you are managing some outdoor time on your verandah despite Mrs nsc...
Hugs
Paws