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What do I tell people now?
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Hello all,
I have always struggled with putting myself out there and I thought it was just a matter of being an introvert. But this year after the year starting out with a fresh new romantic entanglement and a whole fresh attitude towards life, work and parenting the last couple of months feel like they have just fallen apart and I found myself sitting in the GP’s office barely able to speak without crying, not once but on two seperate occasions across a September and October. She was very concerned and asked me several questions that I actually answered totally truthfully for the first time in my life.
It turns out that it seems I have been suffering from anxiety and depression for most of my life. I have taken some time off work but am about to go back next week and it while I haven’t had any anxiety for missing work (and on very short notice for them) I am starting to get a bit panicked about going back. Mostly because people are going to ask how my “holiday”was and what I got up to. I can’t tell them I spent the week crying my heart out and lying prostrate on the couch.
I know there are things that have happened in my life that of course have not helped my current mood, but what I have realised is I have always struggled I just didn’t know that’s what I was doing. I don’t have any support from family where I live and my friendship group is very small.
How up front are you all about telling people of your condition?
Weirdly I am not ashamed of what I suffer from as it explains so much to me but I am not sure how other people will react if I tell them.
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Eejaybee
Welcome to the forums and thanks for sharing your story.
you ask an interesting question.
For many years I was in denial about my own illness . For the last ten years or more i have been open about having bipolar even talking to groups. I have found that people will often open up and tell me that they suffer from or someone in their family has depression.
Of course you need to feel comfortable telling people and decide how much to tell. Sometimes if people don't understand I will use that as an opportunity to educate people in a friendly way.
You could say I have been run down and mentally and physically exhausted and needed a break. Or I suffer from anxiety and depression and I needed a break or something in between.
I find when I feel confident and not worried people will respond well.
I often have people saying I am brave being honest. I do feel the more people can be comfortable telling people abut their mental illness the less stigma there will be.of course everyone is different and if someone does not want to tell then they don't need to put themselves under pressure.
They are just my thoughts andI will be interested to read what you and others think.
Thanks for the question.
Quirky
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Thanks Quirky,
I agree the more open and comfortable people can be with their mental health It may result in less stigma being attached to different conditions. I totally understand some people will not be ready to share and that is totally okay too.
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