Tired and Lonely and Hopeless

[shadowprince]

Hey,

So it's been really rough for me. I've just felt so alone. No one loves me or wants me. All of my friends are moving on or drifting apart, and a lot of those that are still around, I feel unwelcome.

I don't feel like have any future. Everyone else is off being able to do what they want to do and live their lives, but I'm stuck in the same spot that I've always been. I don't even care about what happens for me next year.

I'm just really tired, to be honest

[Aaronsis]

Hi Shadowprince

Welcome and I am so glad that you have come to chat and get some support and feel some care here. I am so awfully sorry that you are feeling that life is passing you by and you are stuck while others move in different directions. It is hard and especially when you really don't know what it is you want from life at this point in time. Can I suggest though, it wont always be like this or feel like this. We do go through stages of feeling so stagnate and like we are at a station and all the trains are just going by, none of them stop and we are just standing on a platform, stationary, waiting for one to stop, yet where to???

We are here to chat with you and to give you some comfort, talk about as much or as little as you like, we are here for you and we are here to listen and care.

Hugs to you shadowprince

AS

[White_Rose]

Dear shadowprince

Hello. Good to meet you and welcome to the forum. I am guessing you have just finished school. Is that correct? Please let us know if I have the wrong idea.

If you have just left school or going into a senior year please know your feelings are normal. It's a huge decision to make plans for your life. In reality of course our plans keep changing because we keep changing, finding new ways and friends. Life is rarely the same for the whole of our lives. Now that's a scary thought. Not sure I want to be the same person as I was at 18 matter how much I enjoyed my life then.

Your tiredness suggests you have been working hard and had lots of stress. Resting, as in not being super active, may be a good idea. It may also be good to see your GP and get a check up though I suspect there is nothing really amiss. Just a thought to check this angle then move on.

Do you have any personal interests? I enjoy reading and sewing. They both give me rest and satisfaction. I also have an social life so need to balance both for the best outcome for me. Perhaps you can spend time doing those things you enjoy, not necessarily with anyone else.

Writing in here is a great idea so I hope we will hear from you some more.

Mary