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Sleep and depression

anxious_about_everything
Community Member

Hi Community,

I have been suffering from poor sleep for years. Recently I have been diagnosed with depression and told that my sleep issues are as a result of the depression. I was also diagnosed with sleep apnoea which is well controlled with CPAP. Has anyone else been through this? Is it possible to have a decent/restful nights sleep with depression? I feel like a zombie and the depression is getting hard to handle. Only 72 hours until my first psychiatrist session - not that i'm counting!!

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Glad to be of service, and I'm happy to give more advice. I strongly recommend that app, as it's been immensely helpful to me. Not just the sound, but if you've got a bit of imagination, it helps with conjuring more peaceful mental imagery. The other post I tried to put up contained the more depression-relevant information.

First thing was getting any negative thinking (or any thinking that's keeping you up, really) out of your head. If you have a confidant you can talk to when you're thinking stuff that's stopping you from sleeping, make full use of it. If not, write it all down. You can rip that up or burn it in the morning if you don't want to look at it any more, or are concerned someone will read it. If you're down, talk it through or write it down. If you've suddenly remembered this great pancake recipe you used to love, make a note to look for it the next day. Whether what you're thinking is good or bad, getting it out of your head will make a surprising amount of difference. That said, if you've been stuck with things swimming around in your head for a long time with no outlet like I was, this won't be a quick fix. You could go for months poking your confidant at night with your worries, or scrawling pages of stuff into the wee small hours. But over time that backlog will ease, and you'll have a more manageable amount of thoughts to expel. In conjunction with some of the other stuff I mentioned, though, it's worth pursuing as a more long-term thing. It's been invaluable for me over time.

Possibly the most important part of this is introspection and decision-making. Depression tends not to exist in a vacuum. There are things that happen in life that cause and/or exacerbate it. It's good you're seeing a psychiatrist because they can help with this: identifying the factors that are contributing most to your depression, and working out what you need to do about them. Sometimes this can be a crazy hard decision like leaving a partner, sharing a secret, quitting a bad job. But knowing what's wrong and what you need to do are big steps in recovery and in being at peace with yourself enough to sleep, and each step toward whatever your goal is will help with that, especially if you keep track of your progress (I keep a "done" list, as well as a "to do" list, which has been really helpful). Again, these are long term things, but well worth it and I would still be utterly sleepless without having taken those steps. Hope you get something out of them, too.

Its been great to read all these tips on helping to get better sleep. I suffer from anxiety and ptsd, rather than depression, but I certainly have problems with my sleep.

I will try to take on board some of these tips you've all put forward. Thanks Blue for directing me to this thread.

Sherie xx

No problem, Sherie. Conquering insomnia has been a huge thing for me, and I can at least say I've done a good job with the internal stuff, and can fall asleep pretty easily now and stay that way when alarms/work and obscenely loud neighbours aren't involved, which was in no way the case a year or even six months ago. Hope you have some success with these ideas.

eveli
Community Member
I'm on medication and i'm feeling good. I sleep good without problems and i'm more calm.

A theme I've seen popping up a bit again lately is people struggling with sleep, or moreover lack of it. Thought I'd bring this thread back to the fore just to highlight some advice given some time ago that is pretty useful for those who aren't doing so well with sleeping.

Just Sara
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Welcome Anxious about everything;

I've had insomnia for nearly 25 yrs and have tried all of the above and some. I came to the conclusion it must've been caused by something so I set about going over my history.

  1. I was raped by my dad at 11 in my own bed.
  2. I was raped by my de facto in our bed.
  3. My 3 yr old had night terrors for 2 yrs every night around 11pm. Ergo...PTSD
  4. My last partner would reject me in bed regularly over a 3 yr period.

Med's help and I've come to rely on them the most. It's better in the winter as getting warm is easier than getting cool. It's about comfort and safety for me.

Keep up the good work all...Dizzy

Chris_B
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Hi everyone, we have a big thread about sleep in the Staying Well section that's currently active - probably better to add to that one rather than this one so we can keep all the good advice together, so we'll close this one off as it's quite old now.