dear Fifi and Danny, quite a lot to read but it's great that the two of you have formed a connection.
Fifi I'm pleased that your business has taken off and that hubby has found some work, it always seems as though we have to fight our way to the top, whereas some people it just happens, with no effort or need to push themselves, but unfortunately all of us here it's a real 'trial and tribulation'.
53 days is a terrific effort, it's never easy, but you are determined and that's the point.
Danny when you stop smoking weed and drinking alcohol it's also an enormous change in your life, so it's a new 'you', it will then make it hard to know which direction to go, because it's been awhile since this has occurred.
You now have to learn ways that please you and that you are happy with, rather than turning towards the weed and the grog for satisfaction.
I know that it's possible and that you will find a substitute, because that's what we need to do to stop these addictions. Geoff.
